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View Poll Results: My husband says "f you!" or otherwise verbally abuses me...
Never 8 47.06%
Never
8 47.06%
Sometimes 6 35.29%
Sometimes
6 35.29%
Frequently 3 17.65%
Frequently
3 17.65%
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Old Nov 29, 2014, 09:12 PM
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Just curious how common it is to hear "F you!" from your husband.

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Old Nov 29, 2014, 10:59 PM
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I can't answer a poll, from my phone, can access that later, however.

I'm answering it's not common. The expression being friends first, I am learning is about friendship being the core base foundation to a romantic relationship. If we wouldn't walk around saying f you, to our besties, certainly, isn't friendly, mutually respectable behavior in a romantic relationship/ partnership/marriage.
If your best friend in the world, started defiantly saying that, what would you do?

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Old Nov 29, 2014, 11:01 PM
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I wish there was a 'rarely' option, since it happened once in a really bad fight.
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Old Nov 30, 2014, 01:39 AM
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Not my husband and now an ex but I heard that so often from a certain boyfriend that I started to think of it as a term of endearment.
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Old Nov 30, 2014, 03:12 AM
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My ex never said "F-you" but almost daily put me down with his words, tone of voice, body language, etc.
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Old Nov 30, 2014, 08:51 AM
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Be clear now in past tense.
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Old Dec 19, 2014, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Petra5ed View Post
Just curious how common it is to hear "F you!" from your husband.
In my opinion saying F you ! is not abusive word it's just a swear
Am I wrong ?
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Old Dec 19, 2014, 04:23 PM
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In my opinion saying F you ! is not abusive word it's just a swear
Entirely depends on the presentation - in this thread I think the original poster is referring to using it to be mean and while angry.
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Old Dec 19, 2014, 04:24 PM
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I never imagined someone would say nasty things like that to their partner or spouse until I read about it happening to others online. My parents never fought in front of us because their parents were abusive. My husband never gets upset, and if he starts to get irritated he just leaves for awhile. He's never reacted in anger towards me.
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