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Old Apr 11, 2007, 12:07 PM
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Just wanted to post another update. Just one of the guys

We've told each other our secrets and it was fine. What a relief to have that off my chest! We've seen each other every day since Friday. (No clothes have come off, don't worry tee hee.) I'm being pretty vigilent about no sex right away. In my past, that has ruined things, and its the same for him.

When he kisses me, it feels like the first time, every time.

Last night he sent me a text after I got home from his place saying "The 3 of us miss you." Meaning him and his 2 cats. Just one of the guys

We text constantly when we aren't together. He says good morning when he wakes up.

He invited me to dinner with a friend of his and his friend's girlfriend this Saturday.

I'm going to his place tonight, even though my show is on. He said I can watch it there even though he doesn't watch it. He said "we'll do the couple thing and I'll read a magazine and tell the cats to be quiet."

He sends romantic texts all the time.

We talk about everything every step of the way, since both of us believe that rigorous honesty is key.

Some might say we're spending too much time together so soon, but we can't get enough of getting to know each other. I've found out more about him in the last few days then I've found out about people in a year.

He continues to sweep me off my feet and give me warm fuzzies just by thinking about him.

Usually I switch into doubt really fast, thinking I don't deserve this kind of happiness. But he fits everything I've ever wanted. He is a perfect gentleman and I continue to be more and more happy with each passing day!!!
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Old Apr 11, 2007, 03:18 PM
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that sounds wonderful! keep to your keeping your clothes on til you and he both are ready! I know how you feel about that!
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Old Apr 11, 2007, 06:09 PM
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Usually I switch into doubt really fast, thinking I don't deserve this kind of happiness. But he fits everything I've ever wanted. He is a perfect gentleman and I continue to be more and more happy with each passing day!!!

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You DO deserve this kind of happiness. Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 01:50 PM
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I do finally believe that. Just one of the guys I was having a rough day yesterday and when I went to his place, he had a single rose and babies breathe for me......~*swoon!*~
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 02:49 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((ray ray i'm so happy for you gf.

how wonderful keep us posted

lots of love jinny xoxoxoxox
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 04:01 PM
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((((( Jinn )))))

Oh I will definetly keep you posted. I can't seem to stop talking about him!!!!
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 05:33 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{raynay}}}}}}}}}}}}}

im so happy your posting this.and sooooooooooooo happy for you.. enjoy this.. and remember to just Breath.. all will fall into place.. you are a wonderful person and he is lucky to have found you. Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 05:52 PM
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I do finally believe that. Just one of the guys I was having a rough day yesterday and when I went to his place, he had a single rose and babies breathe for me......~*swoon!*~

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Does he have a brother? I want a man like that!!! (Except I want him to give me a tulip or a gerbera daisy; I don't like roses much.) Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 07:07 PM
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He has a younger brother, but from what I hear, he's not a great catch, and he lives in PA.

Lostnay, its funny that you say to "just breathe". I changed my song on myspace to "Breathe" by Faith Hill. Tee heeee!!!!
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Old Apr 12, 2007, 11:48 PM
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hehehe i knew we thought alike yay for sisterhood
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Old Apr 13, 2007, 11:53 AM
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Heck yeah!!!

I can't wait until tonight. I get to see him for more than 2 hours. I'm staying at his place tonight and he's staying at mine tomorrow.

Don't worry though, clothes will still remain on!!!!
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Old Apr 16, 2007, 01:07 PM
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Update:

This weekend was incredible! I stayed at his place Friday night and he stayed at mine on Saturday. Clothes still remained on, but we did get a little more hot and heavy. We went to his friend's for dinner Saturday and his friend's girlfriend put out an awesome spread, it was very nice. Then he took me downtown to see his office building and we hung out at my place talking.

Sunday he went home to do his chores and I started freakin about money again, like I always do. I was getting ready for league and I get this text that says "Open your door" so I do and he's standing outside! He came over just to give me a hug. He's such a sweetheart! After league I stopped by to say goodnight.

Its just getting better and better!!!
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Old Apr 17, 2007, 02:34 PM
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Just one of the guys
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We couldn't wait any longer. I should say *I* couldn't wait any longer. It happened last night, and it was beautiful.

Like a tender movie moment of making love.

Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 17, 2007, 02:59 PM
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I believe that is how is suppose to be! the most beautiful thing in the world!
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Old Apr 17, 2007, 03:13 PM
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I never thought it really happened that way....I thought it was only in the movies.....needless to say, I was pleasantly suprised!
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Old Apr 18, 2007, 04:36 PM
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I know I'm on yahoo with you ..and reading this whole post to try to catch up, but I need to post here because I'm just SOOOOOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!

You soooooo deserve this!

Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys

Ray & her bo Just one of the guys Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 18, 2007, 05:40 PM
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Awwwww those are cute avatars for us hahaha!

Today in chat, I shouted out for the hockey fans to give me some basic knowledge of hockey. His favorite sport is hockey and I've watched some with him, but had no clue about rules and such.

I texted him telling him that I had gotten "schooled" and he thought it was sooo sweet and cute that I cared enough to learn about his sport.

I can't wait to see him tonight. I'm gonna go hang out at his place and watch my show over there again.
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Old Apr 18, 2007, 06:06 PM
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Just one of the guys Awhhh... that is absolutely FABULOUS!! Just had to chuck in my two cents, 'cause I know how incredible it is to find a true gentleman like that. ^.^

Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys Just one of the guys
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Old Apr 18, 2007, 06:21 PM
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Thank you Muse..........he's my Muse...........LOL!!!!!!

How's that for cheese? Tee heeee!!!!!!
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Old Apr 18, 2007, 10:45 PM
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Oh LORDY.... my BF and I will literally challenge each other to come up with our cheesiest thoughts about the other one... it leads to some very sweet moments, actually. ^.^

But I am SO glad you've found somebody like this--EVERY woman deserves her Muse, prince charming, angel, knight, gentleman... everything and anything she's ever wanted. Just one of the guys

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Old Apr 19, 2007, 12:55 PM
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He definitely road up on a white horse and swept me off to fairytale land, where I'm his princess......
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