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Old Apr 01, 2015, 12:24 PM
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I have a sex question. I have given head before in the past and had bad experiences with it. I recently let myself go allowing myself to give my boyfriend head freely which shocked him but I have given it to him in the past once in a blue moon. Now, I feel comfortable giving him head on my own terms not being forced or pushed into giving him which he has never pushed me.

I am wondering how do I give him a good bj? When I was giving him one, felt like it was taking a long time for him to cum. What are some good techniques for giving a good bj?

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Old Apr 01, 2015, 03:21 PM
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Invite him to guide you as to what and how much he enjoys and go from there. It won't take you long to try different things: there are lots of varieties, so let your imagination and his explore the possibilities....as for taking a while make sure to be careful with your teethe. That's a big ouch!!!

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Old Apr 01, 2015, 03:37 PM
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Jade gave great advice! Ask him what he likes and doesn't like and always watch out for those teeth.

1. Make eye contact with him and show him you are enjoying it even if you don't
2. Tell him you love his c*** and say "mmmm"
3. Kiss it
4. Use your tongue in different ways
5. Use your breasts and tease him
6. Don't forget his ba*** and be gentle with them
7. Vary your speeds and use your hand in addition to your mouth

I'm giggling now because I am trying to be careful with my words and not be too graphic. LOL
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Old Apr 02, 2015, 03:36 AM
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lol be graphic! Yea, I have said to boyfriend gimme your **** and he said it's all yours my Queen. I would moan and suck on it sometimes I will look at him and sometimes I won't because I am concentrating but will look at him more often. I have licked and sucked on his balls I don't use my teeth try not too.

I don't think he had previous women giving him head or maybe once so not easy to know how he likes his **** sucked what will get him going faster but I will ask him. )
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Old Apr 02, 2015, 11:51 AM
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Use your free hand on yourself and see if that turns him on.
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Old Apr 03, 2015, 11:33 PM
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Bf just told me he had a couple of past girls that gave him head
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Old Apr 04, 2015, 03:38 PM
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So, I was attempting to be not as graphic, the PG rating I guess went out the window with the title of the post.

How did you feel when he revealed his previous bjs? Wondering why in the world he would have told you that anyway????? And in what context....

If it was a mutual show and tell situation, ok. However, that could be a pretty thoughtless act on his part.

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Old Apr 04, 2015, 06:56 PM
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I asked him up front don't think I asked in the past. I feel fine I mean I just wanted some ideas on BJs
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Old Apr 04, 2015, 07:17 PM
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I take an Andes mint still in the wrapper and place it in my bra during foreplay. When it is melted I swirl it over the penis. Who doesn't love a chocolate covered penis and when he comes in your mouth it tastes like more chocolate.
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