What Do You Like About Men?

Angrily says "Nothing"!

I've been hurt by men & recently even more.
I think I've learned to look & not touch. Not want.
Keep my eyes focused on the ground.

I like a sense of humor. A caring heart. The fact he sends me good morning texts! Puppy dog eyes. His love of life and that he has no fear showing it! When he pulls me in for a hug and has to lean down because he's so much taller.

Eek!

I liike a guy who cares. My husband is taking care of a lot of stuff and he doesn't have to. He has manners and listens to me when I talk to him. Even though he's sweet he doesn't show a lot of affection, but he'll kiss me every now and then. He's been a good role model for my daughter.

Eyes, face, humor, kindness, sex. The basics.

I like how they are just like dogs.

In what way? LOYAL? See you as the "leader" of the pack of 2?

Just feed 'em, pet 'em, they're happy licking their own balls.

In the past it was their eyes, their hair, also someone with depth, who was honest and intelligent, I liked muscular men, big biceps were a turn on, being a leftie and interested in politics helped. I also liked being respected and that they liked me for me. Being interested in music helped. As the poster above said, now I avoid it, am hurting from someone a lot at the moment, so wouldn't go near one again. Also it wouldn't be fair on them, I have done enough damage.

"Just feed 'em, pet 'em, they're happy licking their own balls."

I personally find guys who are overweight with little to no muscles to be very attractive. Muscles on a guy to me is a turn off. I am not talking like 600 pounds overweight but more like 250 to 300 pounds. I have dated some skinny guys but they were mostly jerks. I have dated a lot of overweight guys and they were so sweet. I also find a sense of humor and a strong sense of family to be very attractive.

I find most men to be a lot more direct and honest in general in most cases. From my personal experience, it seems like more women tend to be indirect, passive-aggressive, fake, don't really mean what they say sometimes, prone to jealousy, petty, cliquey, competitive, etc...

With men, what you see is usually what you get. Not always of course. And most of the time they're much funnier than most women, and more interesting in general. Some women bore me to death with endless talk about their kids, b.f's, husbands, drama, and gossip about other people.

I like men who are in good shape, but not to bulky like Jason Statham and Joe Maginello. I also like guys who are a little thinner but still muscular like Theo James and Alex Pettyfer.

I like muscles on them, and deep sexy voices. I also like the ones that know how to fix things like my husband. He can fix cars, and anything around the house. He is even able to fix most complex plumbing problems that don't require special tools.

One of the best things about them is that they usually won't talk crap about you behind your back like some women do. I like the fact that they tell things like it is and they don't try to lie to you to spare your feelings like a lot of women tend to do. It's usually easy to tell where you stand with a man. With some women, not so much.

I have met men who are all of those things. You can't generalise really. Men can be all those things too.

True, but she did say in most cases. So I agree that for the most part, men are more direct or "what you see is what you get."

I've had many women pretend to be my friend, only to stab me the back. No man has ever done this. If he's my enemy, I KNOW he's my enemy. Not so with women----MOST women, in MY personal experience.

I want to say also that for me personally, men make better friends, neighbors, co-workers, bosses, and customer service/sales reps.....

When I call cust service for anything, I hope I get a MAN. The experience is almost always better and more pleasant, quicker and easier too. No drama, no hassles.

Physically: I like men who are taller than me and have a larger "mass" than I do. I like feeling little with a guy.

I like medium colored skin, light and maintained stubble, and most importantly a beautiful smile.

Personality: I LOVE a guy who can make me laugh. Feeling comfortable is a must and I like it when neither person feel the need to fill the silence, just enjoy it. I like a guy who understands that I like doing things on my own, but is willing to help if I ask for it. A guy who pushes me to do better without pressuring me into doing things he knows make me anxious. I like a guy who does what he says he'll do, but don't mind if he got a little lazy and postponed.

I like being able to lounge in the living room not talking, but enjoying our company.

And most importantly, a guy who knows how to carry on a conversation, one that knows how to follow up to my random, sometimes crazy remarks, and can talk about anything and everything for hours.

Awhile ago I tried to catch or board a bus at this stop. It didn't say "drop off only" so I tried to get on there. The (woman) driver said "This is the end of the line. You have to walk to 4th street and board there."

After some effort trying to find the stop, I flagged down a (man) driver of another route. He told me where the stop is, and I told him what she said.

He said "I'd have let you board." He then was nice enough to give me a ride to the correct stop.

Granted, not all male drivers are nice nor all female ones petty, but this was an experience I wanted to post.

I need to call AT&T, and I hope I get a male customer service rep.

I like men whose reaction speed is high, because my dad is like that. Quick minded, fast to make a joke, too - not just physical reaction.

I like beards, husky voices, and musky man smell. I hate when men wear cologne. As long as they shower regular, I find the natural smell very nice.

I shall give a story from the opposite perspective-not as a driver, but as someone who worked with customers. During my three years working in the service industry, I found male customers to be much more tolerable than female customers. Women seemed determined to find something wrong from the start-they came in with the idea there would be a problem, then acted as if there were even if everything went perfectly. They were also extremely entitled and dreadfully rude for no reason. And they never wanted a solution-they only wanted to complain!
Of course, not all female customers were rude and some male customers were a*sholes, but generally speaking, men were more tolerable. Hell, one of my rare stories involving a rude man ends with another man confronting him over his rude behavior. Perhaps this is because men have a subconscious desire to protect women and, therefore, are less likely to act in a way that could harm her emotionally or physically. And perhaps women feel competitive towards each other and, because of that, treat one another like trash in order to assert their dominance. I don't know.
When I am the customer, however, both male and female representatives tend to be very nice, generally speaking. But of course, that is their job and I try not to be a bother.
Bah, this was quite longwinded.

They are good for opening stubborn jars of pickles, or perhaps fixing stuff around the house. Other than that, I really don't need a man in my life right now.

When you cut off the blood flow to their brain, they pass out.

Well, some men can only listen to either their brain, or their penis. Not both, and certainly not at the same time.

But in all seriousness, I'm not bashing men. I'm pretty accepting of them as a whole. Some men, like my dad, are usually taller than I am, for example. My dad can reach the highest shelf in the pantry, which I can't (not unless I use a stepladder that is). He's dead useful for getting stuff down from that shelf when I'm far too lazy to get that stepladder out. I accept that usefulness about him.

Yesterday I went to the hardware store. The woman cashier was friendly and all smiles to male customers.

When it was my turn, I said hello and she said nothing back. And I didn't get a smile either. I almost said something then decided the ***** isn't worth it.

Probably jealous cause I'm better looking and she's threatened.