I want to be sterilized

That's your opinion, very theatrical as well. You simply are too young to understand, it's something I can't explain to you and it was the answer I was reluctant to reply with, but I will say it is highly hypocritical in your choice of words.

We're obviously on very different sides here. I don't want to start a fight, so goodnight. Have a nice night/day!

I have not read this whole thread but wanted everyone to know that anyone can get their tubes ties (in males its called a vasectomy, in females its tubal litigation) these procedures are reversable. I know many people in my circle of family and friends that have opted for the process and in their later years had the surgery to reconnect the tubes. it is costly but it can be done for any reason medical or other wise. here in my location every obgyn give out the information on how to get it done, referals to doctors that will do / undo the process some actually do them in their offices now through laproscopic surgery.

I did not have either process but my wife did have her tubes tied when she was younger, after a couple miscarriages, and then about two years ago went through the reversal process.

Well, I am 46 and knew since I was young I never wanted kids. I have never wavered; in fact, the way life has panned out I am increasingly glad I never gave in to pressure and had kids. Some of us do know, and our feelings don't change.