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Grand Magnate
Member Since Oct 2005
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Dec 21, 2007 at 10:58 PM
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1. Womyn need to hear that what we've said has been understood!
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Dec 22, 2007 at 12:24 AM
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You don't think guys need this too?
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Grand Magnate
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Dec 22, 2007 at 12:33 AM
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I do.
Let's start a list as there is one in the men's forum. 
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Elder
Member Since Oct 2007
Location: Midwest
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Dec 22, 2007 at 09:53 AM
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I've got one:
Don't tell us what you think we want to hear to avoid conflict. The truth is always better. __________________ I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children. |
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Dec 22, 2007 at 10:40 AM
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Unless the truth is that my butt DOES look big in these jeans....then lie, and kiss me.
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Wise Elder
Member Since Oct 2004
Location: AZ
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Dec 22, 2007 at 12:20 PM
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Mar 2007
Location: Indiana
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Dec 22, 2007 at 01:39 PM
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Just because I tell you about a problem does not mean you need to fix it...try just listening...and maybe give me a hug. Generally, I know how to fix it, I just want some support and understanding.
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Sep 2007
Location: MA
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Dec 25, 2007 at 01:28 PM
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Grand Member
Member Since Jan 2007
Location: england
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Dec 26, 2007 at 09:35 AM
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true.
just cuz you are happily in love with us doesnt mean were happily in love with u. sorry guys, but thats how it was with my ex for about 6 months. so long cuz i couldnt bear to hurt him yick dot __________________ i miss you...  'cuz the drugs dont work, they just make you worse, but i, know ill see your face again...' 'welcome friends. i am potato.' 
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Junior Member
Member Since Dec 2007
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Dec 29, 2007 at 12:25 PM
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I've got one...how about pure acceptance of who we are and what makes us tick?
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Legendary
Member Since Jan 2007
Location: U.S.
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Dec 30, 2007 at 01:17 AM
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Be genuinely interested in your partner as a person and in her life. Talk to her about her life--her job & career, the kids, her hobbies, her hopes and dreams, the books and movies she likes, etc. Ask her questions about herself, like how her day was. Don't let the conversation be all one way (all about you). If you are not truly interested in her and her ideas and opinions, beyond the fact that she is cute or funny or good in bed, save her some pain and don't get seriously involved.
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Magnate
Member Since Oct 2007
Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Dec 30, 2007 at 10:51 AM
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sunrise - good one!
i got one - when were out at the mall, or just anywhere walking around, if you have to FORCE yourself not to look at those hot girls walking around, DO IT! I don't want to look at you to say something and see you looking at other girls. I know some women don't have a problem with it but I do. |
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Grand Member
Member Since Oct 2007
Location: Some place beyond myself, West Virginia
Posts: 999
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Dec 30, 2007 at 02:15 PM
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um...realistically (maybe more ideally) just give us what we want and we'll be nice
 ...kidding. No, for real, the only thing I can recommend is to be sympathetic to her, especially when she's needing it. |
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Jan 11, 2008 at 07:48 PM
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1 be kind to us
2 care 3 talk 4 listen 5 gives hope when there is not any, cause sometimes alittle delution for awhile is good 6 smile 7 know we care 8 not all women are cranky |
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Magnate
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Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Jan 11, 2008 at 09:05 PM
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9. if we are in a bad mood DO NOT SAY "what.. are you on your period?" If were mad that does NOT mean that we're bleeding!!
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Legendary
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Location: U.S.
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Jan 12, 2008 at 12:30 AM
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10. If we cry, don't get freaked out or think it has to be about you or that you've done something wrong. Crying relieves stress and shedding a few tears can do wonders to improve mood--maybe it was a hard day at the office or with 3 screaming kids, that's all. (But if we cry right after an orgasm, it means it was REALLY, REALLY, GOOD!!!)
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Wise Elder
Member Since Jan 2006
Location: Florida
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Jan 12, 2008 at 02:26 AM
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I am not for sure if this one is one here or not - for I have not read the entire thread.........
Give her time away with her girl friends (ladies night out) at least once a week with out making her feel guilty for leaving you alone...... for she will be a better person when she returns (refreshed and ready for life... and you ).
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Wise Elder
Member Since Oct 2004
Location: AZ
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Jan 12, 2008 at 02:33 AM
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Heck yes. I had girl time today with my best friend. We drank Starbucks and ordered chinese food, and just sat and talked. I needed it so bad. When we made the plans yesterday morning, it made my whole day good.
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Pandita-in-training
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Location: Maryland
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Jan 12, 2008 at 09:12 AM
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Get to know Me. Our relationship is not like any other relationship you have had and you can't read articles or books about "women" to know what makes me tick.
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Jan 12, 2008 at 01:01 PM
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13 know that we are trying so hard to understand you too
14 we make mistakes too 15 that sometimes in our eyes "we may not show it" you are our heros |
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