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Jul 04, 2013, 11:48 PM
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What do you do if your married boss that is a woman rubs her *** on my ****
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Jul 08, 2013, 07:48 PM
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Well, that sounds like sexual harrassment to me. If you have a human resources office, then it should be reported.
What do you want to do? Tell her you are flattered, but not interested? Have a wild affair? Just keep in mind that such relationships with people in a workplace can end up really bad--as in, "You're fired." Definitely keep a record of any such acts..... I assume you are sure it was intended. The asterisks make it a little difficult to know the nature of the contact! |
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Jul 08, 2013, 07:59 PM
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It's sexual harassment and it's just as bad as if the genders were switched. You should report it to whoever is in charge of handling that stuff.
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Jul 17, 2013, 10:35 PM
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Jul 18, 2013, 02:23 AM
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Do you tell her that you don't want her to do that? You need to be direct and reject her inappropriate behavior. You can't allow her to use her status as your boss as a pass to molest you. You are the one who has to stop this.
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Jul 18, 2013, 07:12 PM
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Are there other people around, when she corners you like this?! Where does she ever find the time, to do this?!
Who's working around there, if all she is doing this to you?! She reports to your Brother in-law, and have you told him, yet? I agree with the above poster, be very direct and clear, "Listen, keep your hands off me, or I will report you to the Board of Labor!!" (and while I am at it, why not the other employees, your husband and whoever else. While I'm at it too, here, let me video record this on my cell phone, while I say No!!) |
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Jul 18, 2013, 11:40 PM
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This sort of thing is sexual harassment, plain and simple. It really is no different if a woman is pursuing a man instead of a man a woman. I realize that you are in a tight spot since she is your boss and that leaves you in a unfair situation. I would try to quietly and discreetly go to HR I suppose and report it. It is very illegal and in most places it would get her canned
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Jul 19, 2013, 08:37 AM
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No, there are no other people around when she does it its usually late at night when we close or early in the morning when we open. I like it and I want to eff her brains out but I dont know whether she is doing this to mess with me because we went to a class together one time in February. she picks me up at my house and on the way home she goes I have the whole house to myself for next 4 hours and I didn't think of anything of it at the time and the next day I worked with her thats when all the stuff started to happen. for 6 straight months and maybe shes getting back at me for not doing anything and her husband was away that week.
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Jul 19, 2013, 12:35 PM
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Maybe, she didn't feel you took the hint, the first time? So, are you worried that your brother in-law will find out, if you go down this path?
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Jul 19, 2013, 01:50 PM
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My brother in law wont find out because she is in just as wrong as I am . and there are cameras there and shes the one who always starts it like Tuesday I was walking behind her and she backs up on my ****. there were a couple people there I dont think they saw though. but she wont go out to the bar with me or nothing because were not suppose to do that boss and employee or managers and I dont know whether to confront her about it or not, I tried yesterday but, I didn't want to get awkward
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Jul 19, 2013, 02:06 PM
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Seriously though, you need to find someone to muck around with that you can trust, I don't see any trust in this at all! Good luck!
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Jul 19, 2013, 03:13 PM
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I agree. I noticed your name, too. I gather from it that you are actually liking this attention. Are we right?
If so, then we don't need to know about what's happening. If not, then good grief, man, how about telling her to keep her whatever away from your whatever? You are being used. Taken advantage of by someone in charge. And, as we say, that's harrassment. We don't need any more details to understand that. Okay? We have in all kindness told you we think your job will likely be in trouble if this kind of thing persists. She will tell the story that you started it or whatever. Any way you can even avoid being alone with her? We have shared with you our thoughts. You don't need to tell us any more details. We get the picture. I know I am sounding tough, but we are being honest with you as people who care. All right? |
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