My CEO hit on me

I do not know. Maybe my boss, maybe the VP. They said it would help the paid advertising team and my team to associate more together.

It’s kinda funny how I’ll go over it in my brain to try to find connections to actions and reactions over your experience. . Maybe none of it means anything. I draw conclusions like maybe your CEO was interested in you from back then and moved you to avoid temptation which eventually led to him going for it and hitting you up for an affair after there would be no repercussions due to employee relationship. But— maybe it was all just random and he hit on you because he’s just a dirty dog.

Hopefully your husband didn't get upset. That would be a good trait if he was honest enough to talk to you about it but also keep his ego in check.

Maybe he is confused too. It looks to me like you gave him the 'I'm available' message and he made a move.

In no way did I give him the "I'm available message". I told him I had to get a divorce. I did not say I was going to date and find someone else.

He made a move because he is a sleazebag and saw an opportunity. He grabbed it. If he misinterpreted me in any way, that's his fault and is on him -- it's not my fault and it's not on me.

Your post puts me on the defensive.

I am going to ask admin to close this thread now.

He can't read your mind. Maybe you didn't mean to give that signal, but you did. Misunderstandings happen all the time. People shouldn't get so worked up about them. There was a funny scene in a Woody Allen movie where he was saying how he had trouble reading women. He was on a date with a woman and she was saying that she was a nymphomaniac and would have sex any time any place. So he kisses her and she gets all upset and asked what kind of women do you think I am??! He turns to the camera and says "How could I have misread those signs?"