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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:01 PM
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has anyone here ever tried quitting porn all together, and finally started to be attracted towards chicks? I mean if you get a hard on from straight porn how can you actually be gay? when you dont even get turned on from phags.

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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:24 PM
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I would think that quitting gay pornography would affect your sexuality...But I'm just presuming! I'd just let with your feelings and desires guide you! Best of luck and hope that helps a little!!
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:29 PM
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I would think that quitting gay pornography would affect your sexuality...But I'm just presuming! I'd just let with your feelings and desires guide you! Best of luck and hope that helps a little!!

lol dude IM SRS HERE I only watch straight porn no gay ****..... my **** gets a hard on while im looking at chicks and being around chicks.
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 12:42 PM
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It's not about sex and sexual attraction; it's more an anxiety/social thing. If you are attracted to porn then you are attracted to women only you have a problem because the porn is not real and getting in the habit of getting off that way is a real habit so quitting porn won't change the habit itself, the habit is an "action". Only getting out there and socializing/getting to know and "work with" women can change the whole scenario. It's not the porn that is the problem, it is how you interact (or not) with other people. Sounds like you are stuck in your head. I'd get a therapist and work to figure out how to get "out" into the real world and interact with other real people.
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 01:03 PM
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lol dude IM SRS HERE I only watch straight porn no gay ****..... my **** gets a hard on while im looking at chicks and being around chicks.
Sorry man!!! Good to hear!!
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 01:13 PM
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has anyone here ever tried quitting porn all together, and finally started to be attracted towards chicks? I mean if you get a hard on from straight porn how can you actually be gay? when you dont even get turned on from phags.
what makes u think you might be gay? Not sure what u mean. What do u mean finally started being attracted to girls? Where you not always attracted to girls? Or did the porn substitute actual girls and after quitting porn you feel attracted to them? Not really sure what your saying. Try again to explain.
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 01:23 PM
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im saying since Im not getting any sex from chicks I use porn....being an addict like I said I dont get a hard on from guys only chicks... but then when i look at chicks im like damn hot, but then when I realize they are looking at me I go into shy mode... even if im hanging out around chicks to... mainly because what good am me and why should they be with me I dont money or a job yet
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 02:29 PM
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im saying since Im not getting any sex from chicks I use porn....being an addict like I said I dont get a hard on from guys only chicks... but then when i look at chicks im like damn hot, but then when I realize they are looking at me I go into shy mode... even if im hanging out around chicks to... mainly because what good am me and why should they be with me I dont money or a job yet
I can understand what you mean and appreciate what you are going through! If you want chicks to want you, from my experience it's all about being confident! Girls like confident and self-assured guys! Be the BEST you can be in all aspects, and you'll find the best one for you! Improve yourself, physically, mentally, financially, spiritually, socially, academically, emotionally, etc., and your self-esteem and confidence will shine, and girls will flock to you!!
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Old Nov 30, 2013, 02:34 PM
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mainly because what good am me and why should they be with me I dont money or a job yet
You don't want a chick that just wants you for your money or job do you? As a chick, I'd say more of us prefer "nice guys" to just those who happen to have money and a job. Yes, money and jobs are important for showing your responsible side but that's not the only or most important side necessarily!
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Old Dec 02, 2013, 12:59 AM
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Hmm, maybe you're just finding yourself. Perhaps you're bi? No shame there.

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Old Dec 02, 2013, 09:48 AM
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maybe I am maybe not, I did have one casual sexual intercourse with a female, but like that was nothing to me... I did get a hard on when she was massaging me though, maybe the porn addiction is what causing me to feel depressed too much porn images in my head...
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