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Mar 07, 2016, 03:43 PM
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Tonight at an LGBT Drop in where there is no drink or drugs people started talking about which bar they go to
Iv not been on the LGBT scene for a while since i married my husband its been more than 10 years and i Started thinking about going out on the scene asking my husband if we could go out once a month I have problems with drink and drugs to the point where i was having blackouts Now am thinking one drink will not hurt My husband shot that idea out of my head So NO DRINK OR DRUGS feel left out and upset I want to go to the scene but i cant if i have a drink and drugs problem miss the good time but most of it was me Drinking myself to oblivion and having to deal with the after effects I miss it so much but maybe that is an excuse my husband says av got to be able to be around people who drink maybe this is a bad idea
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Mar 07, 2016, 05:45 PM
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I'm gay also, and I haven't done the LGBT bar scene in a long time because I'm an alcoholic.
I'm well aware that the gay bar was the only place that gay people could socialize for many decades, but I've often found a glorification of alcohol (and other drugs). Your husband is right that if you need to have a drink to socialize you should not go to any kind of bar. It sounds like you have a good hubby; listen to him. |
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Mar 07, 2016, 06:38 PM
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I've NEVER been in a gay bar! I got sober in 1987 and came out in 2004, just a few years too late, ya think..??? HAHA
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Mar 11, 2016, 06:36 PM
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My son has met all his partners through online gay dating chat lines and has been very successful at finding fine relationships without going to gay bars
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Mar 13, 2016, 05:08 PM
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Thank you for replying to me
I think you are all right ...the drop in is a alcohol free zone there are groups but there not that much going on that we are at a free time because i have my 13 and 14 year old nieces for the weekend every 2nd Friday and they stay until Sunday one group i want to go to is an transgender group my mother who is my nieces guardian think that me being transgender is a phase i didnt help with that as i was suppressing myself because of church am longer suppressing myself
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