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Old Apr 09, 2008, 02:46 PM
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<font color="purple"> </font> I quit using 3 days ago & at certain times it becomes very hard for me to handle! the thought of picking up overwelms me & it makes it hard for me! thats when i really need help b/c i can't do this on my own. every time i've tried i've failed! why does this have to be so hard! i also deal with severe depression & being bi-polor. recently i haven't been able to see my baby girl ,Alyssa, b/c of my addiction, and that is what is keeping me clean right now! I also enrolled myself in the local clinic for counceling & group theropy & i also have been attending n|a meetings! I recently found this website & i am really excited about it! why does this have to be so hard! i hope to meet some friends on here & get some support from u all as well!

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Old Apr 09, 2008, 10:40 PM
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Welcome to PC. Hope you find us helpfful. Getting and staying clean is really hard, especially the first few days. Just try to take it one day at a time and try to really focus on your recovery. Glad that you're getting some IRL support.

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Old Apr 12, 2008, 11:30 PM
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It's never easy, never. So far you seem to be doing the right thing though. Use your daughter as an incentive to help make good decisions in the future. I hope as days pass and you stay clean it will become easier then it is at this point. Like I said before though...addiction is forever and it never becomes easy...you learn to live with it and learn to deal with life from a sober perspective versus the suppression of emotions while using.

Hope everything works out for you.
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Old Apr 13, 2008, 01:12 PM
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Getting clean and sober has been one of the most difficult things I have ever had to do in my life. As time has passed, I have had moments where I don't even have to think about it--it just comes naturally. It took a long time to get to that point. So, take heart, it does get better. Of course, I am just like everybody else, just one drink away from a relapse...it just seems like that first drink does not haunt me like it did when I first got sober.
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Hang in there! It DOES get easier!
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