What could this be that I'm going through

Not sure where to post my problem .It is not really anxiety it is more stress that I'm going through and shock.

About 12 days ago some thing happen with me and my friend.Not going to say what that is private . But I will say my friend was not rude ,mean or teasing me and we where not fighting or debating just clear this up. My friend was not talking trash about me or cheating.

But for some reason I'm not sure why my friend did this and I will not ask him why.

I'm shocked and find this strange and my friend got too worked up over some thing that really is not that bad.

After my friend left I have become detached from getting out of the house , going shopping and from my friend .

I have not been going to work and not going to sleep . I'm not sleeping now only getting 4 or 5 hours of sleep and has been like this for 12 days now!!

I wake up in the night and want to get up.

All because I have become obsessive to go on the internet and find a answer to why my friend may have done this.I have been spending all day on the internet to get a answer.Not going to work do to on the internet to get a answer.Not even time to brush my teeth !! I'm not hungry and when I do eat I have to force my self to eat.

Some times when I'm on the internet or trying to sleep I think about this over and over and some times become very combative.

I still feel stress out and shocked and my heart rate is up and all sweaty and some times yell and get very combative.

Morureseris, I think you should be addressing what is going on with you and why you are loosing sleep and being so upset by this. Missing work and being somewhat obsessive about an answer to something that is outside of your control is not a healthy thing for you to do. What the person did is not as important as what you are doing to yourself over a question that might be unanswerable for you. Please stop focusing on the friend and more on your own reaction. I understand you may care about this person, but complete understanding of the situation is up to the other persons control. My guess is that this little nothing he got excited about was somehow an emotional reaction, and not a logical one. JMHO...but nothing to do
with you and are'nt you reacting rather over-amplified as he/she did by being so upset.
Get some rest would be my thoughts so you can think clearer about this. Hope you feel better very soon. Hugs, bj

Does this sound like I may have psychological shock or posttraumatic stress disorder do to what happan?

Morureseris, I could not tell you anything about whether you have either of those.
Your overly focusing on this might be due the devastation/importance of what he/she told you. What I need to say here; is your reaction over-blown? If you want to talk to me privately, please do so. My concern was the impact you are letting this have on you. You are obsessing over it and actually making this a significant factor as to costing yourself peace of mind, loss of sleep, and interfering with your job.
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Whatever he/she told you is completely out of your ability to do anything about.
Your self-control on this is the only thing I wish you had a better handle on. Your reaction described here could not be much worse than if you had lost a loved one.
Is your reaction equivalent to what was said? My guess is that it isn't. You are definitely anxious about this and need to address this for yourself, and your own well being. Hope that helps.
hugs, bj

Why is that hard to do?

The fact that it is going on 14 days now and despite how hard I try not to think about it that much I still do.

I don't feel like working and I don't feel like sleeping.Even despite some answers on the internet why he may have done that I still feel confused.

It comes down to 3 reason why he did that.

1. He feels embarrassed by that .
2. He feels it is no good
3 All the above

This is what I'm reading on the internet !! Out of the 3 want it could be and why !!
I do feel devastate by this and shocked by this and he does not know that I know about it !!! And that he overreacted .The part that got be so shocked by this it would be very hypercritical on his part.

It is like me telling you not to speed on the highway and than I go and speed so the highway so hypercritical !!

Morureseris, I'm a non-professional. I cannot fit you into a category. You're still not
working on you even if I could give you a label He and his problem has you all worked up. You are way out of your comfort zone on what he did/said; and you are trying to figure him out instead on concentrating on why this is effecting you so negatively. Okay, you are devastated by his hypocritical action, I understand that.

My whole point is you are concentrating on him and his actions and can you really do anything about whatever he said/did/does? Is that in your power? Can you make him change his mind? Can you keep him from being embarrassed? Can you make him feel that what he did/said/does was wrong or from the opposing point of view: forgivable?
Are you a mind-reader and know what he feels, thought, thinks, etc?

My concern is you..and although I have no way of putting you in a little square box and saying you have PTSD or anything other than you are anxiety ridden with someone else's actions. I hope someone else will jump in here and give you a different view point. I will do a search on this, about your anxiety on/for someone else. I still think basically, if you are so put out and confused about this, drop him like a hot rock. If he's creeped you out so much; stay away from him. I can only go by what you have said here, so I'm sure I only have a small amount of the story, so my advise comes from what you have mentioned.

Your being this upset, I do think it would very prudent of you to see a therapist.
Hugs, bj