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Sep 13, 2006, 11:14 AM
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on 8/11/06 I got the news that the coast gaurd had found my grandsons body in the delta waters theyy had been looking for him all night. This was at Bradford Island it was all over the news! I believe that if his mother had been watching him closer,had safty gates up, had not let him play alone down stairs in his bedroom by the front door where it was left open and he got out! I would still have my precious grandson here with me. I blame myself some because we were trying to get custody because we felt it was unsafe for him on this island and did'nt get the court papers fast enough. I cant work right now, I cant sleep very well and Im still crying every day! I thought things would get a little easier to deal with but it's not.I had to go to the hospital for chest pains & breathing trouble I was told it was anxiaty attact. I just dont know how to deal with this. KASEY I love and miss you so much!
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Sep 13, 2006, 12:06 PM
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I am so very sorry for your devastating loss kellygirlis. May you find peace and comfort in the coming days. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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Sep 13, 2006, 12:56 PM
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(((((((((kellygirlis))))))))))
my thoughts are with you
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Sep 13, 2006, 02:40 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Sep 13, 2006, 04:08 PM
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ZOUCH! I wish you and your family well and God bless you!
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Sep 13, 2006, 04:48 PM
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So terribly unfortunate, such a young baby. I myself have a 2 year old, and a 17 month old, so I know how it's important to never let my eyes off of them. I'm so sorry for your lose. That is a terrible thing to experience, but you cannot blame yourself for this. You did what you could, and sadly time has a way about it that none of us can possibly control. I'm sure if you could control time you would go back and change what happened, that's what basically matters, you are a very loving Grandmother.
There's no way I can tell you to move on, accept it, and let go, because if this would have happened to my babies, I would never be able to let go! Don't let go, hold on to all the memories you have of your little grandson, and appreciate the times you did have with him. Memories are sentimental, a living beyond existence. He will live on through memories. Be happy you've known him. I'm so sorry, this aches my heart, i could never imagine the pain you must be experiencing. Don't blame yourself, and try not to be angry, instead try to understand. (((((((((((kellygirlis)))))))))))...it's going to be okay.
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Sep 18, 2006, 08:17 AM
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I'm very sorry for you Kelligirlis. My prayers are with you!
Treasure the moments you spent with him and he will stay alive with you forever! I know now it might not seem as a great consolation, but give it time! 'When you think of him don't be sad because you have lost a grandson but be happy because you have gained an angel!!' He will be watching over you, ie treasure this thought!
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Sep 18, 2006, 09:56 AM
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(((kellygirls)))) so sorry for your loss...please, don't put the blame on yourself, you were doing what you could...and realize some of what you feel right now is survivor's guilt...I wish I could just hug you, hold you tight, tell you this would all be alright, and help alleviate some of that pain & loss you feel right now...my thoughts and prayers are with you, may God bless you and your family, give you the comfort and peace of mind you need.
hugs, luv Lisa
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Sep 25, 2006, 10:11 PM
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kellie I understand how you feel. I lost a granddaughter 10 yrs ago. She was my world. Yes it does get easier but this is very fresh for you. Give yourself time to grieve. It doesn't go away overnight. pm anytime if you need to talk hon.
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Sep 27, 2006, 09:38 AM
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((((Kellygirlis)))) I'm so so sorry, I can't imagine your pain.
I pray to God that you will find your peace some day. Don't blame yourself, just hang in there! Love xoxo
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Sep 27, 2006, 09:52 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. The heartache is horrible...but with each passing day AND support such as from the good folks here on PC you will hopefully be able to prevent some of those painful tears! God bless and keep you close to him. Dottie
 
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