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Apr 01, 2007, 01:45 AM
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Something awful has happened. My friends baby grandson who is 12 weeks old died suddenly in the night. He was perfectly healthy. My heart is breaking for her and all of their family. I don't know what to say. I feel so sad. How am I going to get through the funeral? I'm really scared about it. I know theres nothing I can do other than to be there.....its just so horrible. Its just not fair!!
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Apr 01, 2007, 06:46 AM
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(((((((((((((((((kindergirl)))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 01, 2007, 08:13 AM
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((((((((((((kinder))))))))))))
What a devestating sadness to you and your friends family. Please know that you will help them just by "being there". There are no words that will help with the pain right now. I pray for all of you, strength and love to get through this very difficult time. Love and hugs J |
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Apr 01, 2007, 08:59 AM
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((((((((((((((((kindergirl))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry for the loss.....it's very difficult to lose someone you love..no matter the age. My heart goes out to you and your friends.... Snowflake
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Apr 01, 2007, 10:23 AM
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((((((((((KINDERGIRL))))))))
mY THOUGHTS A ND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND THE FAMILY. 
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Apr 01, 2007, 10:28 AM
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"How am I going to get through the funeral" -- kindergirl, cry and share your unhappiness and sense of unfairness with the family; no one can/should "get through" someting this horrible.
Last summer my son/daughter-in-law had a friend lose their child who was learning to swim in a drowning accident. My husband and I went to babysit our grandchildren a couple times the next month or two to free up the son/daughter-in-law to just go be with their friends. There's a lot of comfort in just being around others you know and trust and who "understand" your grief, maybe you can help your friends that way.
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Apr 01, 2007, 03:02 PM
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Hello I am very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. Soidhonia
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Apr 01, 2007, 07:00 PM
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Thank you all for your kind words. Life can be so cruel can't it.!! I went into chat, but unfortunately I upset people, who left because they didn't want to talk about dead babies!!! Not my intention.......just sharing a bit of my grief!! Maybe I should just stick to posting!! Thank you again for your kind words of support. xx
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Apr 02, 2007, 04:42 PM
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kindergirl, I am so sorry for the loss of that precious little baby! What an awful sad thing to happen. Saying a prayer for you and the parents as I type.
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Apr 02, 2007, 05:10 PM
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that's okay, kindergirl. you didn't intend to upset anyone in your chat, you were looking for comfort.
I'm so sorry about the baby. It is so very sad when a baby dies and so hard to understand, especially when the baby is apparently healthy. There is no easy way to deal with this; just be emotionally honest and let your tears come as a tribute to this little one's short sweet life. It's a comfort to the parents knowing others share their grief. No words are even needed; a hug and and "I'm so sorry" will show your support of the family at such an exhausting and hard time. |
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Apr 03, 2007, 03:23 AM
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((((((((((((((((Kindergirl)))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry for your loss ...
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