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Old Jul 30, 2008, 02:20 PM
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I have really bad anxiety isuues...which puts a huge hold on me and the rest of the world. It's hard to make and keep friends. I feel like... I either don't say enough...or that I talk to much for people...and that everyone thinks im werid! Am I alone on this matter?? any advice? I am seeking help and I am on meds...which is helping..but its hard to change over night..I'm 22...and have had anxiety issues for a long time now.
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I am 22..Living with GAD,ADD,PTSD, and Bipolar II. I also have panic attacks..that put a toll on my everyday life. Life is very confusing and new to me right now. I Just started treatment for my disorders.

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Old Jul 30, 2008, 03:02 PM
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Hi Tinna, it takes time to work through all of these things and then to feel like you have a handle on things. Keep working and be forgiving of yourself. No one is perfect and we all sometimes look silly or feel ackward. If you can learn to just accept that these things will happen and that it is okay it makes things much easier!
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Old Jul 30, 2008, 03:11 PM
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Thank you...and you're right it will take sometime!
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Old Aug 02, 2008, 10:34 AM
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I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I feel this way almost constantly. It's been a life long struggle.
What has comforted me the most is realizing that my opinion of myself is no less important than anyone else's. Someone's negative opinion of me is not automatically more accurate than my own opinion of me. And because my opinion matters, I try to view myself in a compassionate way, the way I would like others to view me.
I tell myself I have faults and shortcomings just like anyone else. I make mistakes because I'm human just like everyone else. If people are going to define me solely through them, these are not the kind of people I want in my life.
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Old Aug 03, 2008, 01:21 PM
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Hey you are no freak. I feel anxious heaps and I'm 23. But it will get and then it will get worse again but you just have keep working at it and eventaully the goo times will last longer then the bad times. That's what I keep telling myself anyway. <font color="purple"> </font>
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Old Aug 07, 2008, 11:58 PM
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No you are not a freak! I have anxiety and everyone has anxiety. You can control it. I have anxiety issues and I am learning to control it.
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Old Aug 08, 2008, 05:00 AM
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I have had similar probelms all of my life and I am 40. You are not alone.

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Old Aug 08, 2008, 06:43 AM
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You are not a freak!! We are all unique. It will take time, be patient with yourself and talk to us here and see how normal you are.
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Old Aug 08, 2008, 09:12 AM
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Nope not a freak at all.... altho I can undertsand why you feel that way, b/c I have felt that way too... but anxiety is very common and treatable... sometimes its a long journey with constant upkeep to stay on top of it.... its a work in progress for sure...
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Old Aug 08, 2008, 09:34 AM
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Not a freak, just unique. I think we're all a bit different from each other and we're supposed to be. It would be great if we could all relish the ways in which we are "one of a kind". I don't know why we often feel we are odd or weird because of our uniqueness. It's probably our insecurity and lack of self esteem.
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Old Aug 08, 2008, 10:16 AM
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Well, I keep seeing the title of your post on the boards and I have to keep checking whether I'm a freak or not!

No you are not!

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Old Aug 08, 2008, 12:52 PM
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I agree with all of you..Thank you so much to everyone..I am a very insure person...any tips on gaining self esteem? I always feel like im not good enough
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I am 22..Living with GAD,ADD,PTSD, and Bipolar II. I also have panic attacks..that put a toll on my everyday life. Life is very confusing and new to me right now. I Just started treatment for my disorders.
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Old Aug 08, 2008, 01:24 PM
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There's a Steps To Better Self Esteem forum too! Maybe I should go there...
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Old Aug 09, 2008, 01:18 AM
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Being insecure happens to the best of us. You can always talk here, know you will not be judged.
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