Trigger - helping someone with Sui thoughts

I need to go soon, so if someone wants to go ahead and try set this up, go for it - I'll be back in 15 hours. I'd like to be a moderator or similar, or I am happy too, to run it

Sure! No Problem

Click on the SOCIAL GROUPS link, whether on the left column in the profile, or on the task bar in the main forum index.

From that listing of all the social groups...go to the very bottom and in a colored bar (depends upon what skin you're using as to what color it is) you'll see : CREATE A NEW GROUP

Click on that.

It opens in a new window asking for NAME OF GROUP and a description of group (who it's for etc.)

Then there are choices in a drop down making it PUBLIC, MODERATED or INVITE ONLY.

You can change (EDIT) the group's options as to public or not, and what the description is, but YOU CANNOT EDIT THE NAME OF THE GROUP (at least I haven't see how yet. )

When a private group (INVITE ONLY) is created, you'll have the option of inviting people with the same...go to the bottom of the social group and click on invite/edit members. From there in the window you type in who you wish to invite and it will send the invitation. Others can suggest people, and people can ask in PM or otherwise, but the invite has to come through the originator of the group and that window.

The social group will need to be active or DocJohn will drop it from the listing (I think post something every 30 or 60 days??) And it will need 25 members before you can then create a private FORUM that will show on the forum index ONLY to members.

TC!


Here is the info i got, so....before you start make sure you have the right amount of people for it and you should start it so you can be the moderator.

I have started a group, and invited those of you that showed an interest. Please suggest other people to invite too.

Alternatively, if you werent invited initially (And I promise this was not intentional - I just didn't want people to ever get triggered) and would like to join, please PM me, or post in this thread.

I really hope this will be useful

8 Members - we need some more...

Thank you for doing this! I think it is going to be a very helpful group.

Glad to see that you are breaking the tendency to isolate there, suga! Good! For me, this was the first thing that i needed to do to help myself through those times. I also think it is ood to be able to plan a crisis plan with someone who is ready to act a bit faster than T sounds like she is ready to act now. Ask her what you can do in the mean time, since your mood can shift fast and what she is talking about can take a very long time to get going. You can replace options on the NOW list with options on the THEN list as they get worked out, I think. If she balks, you need to see if you can start writing up a crisis plan yourself, with your BF, a good friend, or one of us to bounce ideas off of. I can't be on everyday, but I try to get on at least once every two days if I can, and can also be PMed, as long as it's something that's not too acute, 'cause I'd hate to think of you waiting too long feeling like kak! I'm not easily triggered, not by this stuff. HUGGGGGGSSSSSSSS dear one!

Thanks Lonegael!