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Dec 30, 2012, 04:21 PM
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Hi my name is Robin. I am here bc my spouse is manic and severely depressed. She has commented that she thinks of suicide all day and everyday for a long time. When she was 8 she practiced russian roulet with her mothers gun. She is mean, demanding and hurtful..:'(. and can't control it... its almost like she's a different person. I am really hurt by her reprocussions and it makes me consider leaving. I love her so much and I can't just walk away. Psychiatrists are not on her insurance so I am trying to find hoffer elp. Can someone please offer any information?? Thanks sooo much
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Jan 01, 2013, 09:35 PM
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Sometimes you can go through government-run psychiatric services. They go by paycheck, not insurance, and charge a percentage. They aren't always the best, but they're better than nothing. If she has a therapist, ask the therapist about other options available in your area. If not, if there is a psychiatric hospital in your area, talk with them and ask about resources in your area. They usually have that information and sometimes there are counselors at these hospitals willing to help you (for free) find the resources she needs and also help you to cope, too.
 Take care.
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Jan 02, 2013, 09:41 AM
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I'm really impressed by you sticking by her. That says a lot about you. Sleep patterns are really important and exercise is a great antidepressant but oh so hard to do while depressed! Seeing a T is really important but if you can't afford that then writing in a journal can help also. Mood charts can help to monitor mood patterns, triggers and early warning signs. But for me meds and a good pdoc have been the biggest help. Hope this helps and kudos for sticking by her - she is a lucky woman.
Also where are you from?
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Jan 02, 2013, 11:52 AM
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I have put my wife through the same kind of thing when my mood is bad (depression or mixed state). If you live in the US and aren't a vet, Native American, or senior, there isn't likely to be any government-run mental health care.
But there may be some private, non-profit centers that can help your partner find a psychiatrist to help at a reduced or no fee. And a lot of private ones may offer services at a reduced fee. But don't put it off, if you can convince her to go. For me, getting on the right meds made all the difference. My wife would tell you that for sure. There are good books to help you, like "Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder." |
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Jan 02, 2013, 01:35 PM
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Actually if you're in the US you can look into your area and see if there are clinics. The government as a whole doesn't necessarily have a program. But some cities and counties have programs for people who are uninsurred. They may have income requirements (like poverty level requirements) and charge on a sliding scale.
If she is threatening harm to herself, you need to get her in. If she threatening suicide every day, and you have no where else to turn, take her to the ER. She may resist but it could save her life.
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Jan 02, 2013, 11:54 PM
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Resources: Department of mental health, NAMI (www.nami.org) and DBSA(www.dbsa.org).
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Jan 02, 2013, 11:58 PM
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*vows* LOL
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Jan 03, 2013, 06:51 AM
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You are really great for standing by her. I am constantly amazed at how my husband puts up with me. When I am manic I just pick at him and have physically attacked him on numerous occasions. I know I would not stay with me. However when I am stable I am so different so when it gets really bad know that she probably hates herself for the way she behaves I know I do.
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