A little this a little that

@Hammy You are too kind, making me blush first thing in the morning

Mara I'm happy to hear this thread has benefitted you

Guyyyyys.... My body is aching after yesterday's antics!
Maybe its a sign? Maybe I'm allergic to domestication

Instead of more exercise to loosen up these buggers I want a muscle relaxant and to sleep for a week. But I know better, so I hope I dont sit on my bum all day doing nothing.

Did I mention Jordan is driving me nuts?
No, you couldn't care less?
Well I'm telling you anyway

She is über passive aggressive toward me. Taking below the belt shots at me under the guise of humour. But we all know when Gary is talking about how everything I own must be Lavender he's laughing at my quick temper and inability to chill, but shE? She's just being plain ole mean, even Gary and mum agrees.

Also she has officially entered the hyperbolic stage,
where there's drama drama everywhere! Apparantly her mother has NEVER liked her, blah di blah di blah di blah

Isnt this curtain call a bit early? I mean geeeeez she's only 9! I'm so ill-prepared for this

btw I think the passive aggression is because she hates who her sperm donor is (and unknowingly resents me for it).... She keeps saying how she wishes bf was her dad... been saying that for years, even when we weren't dating...

as the lyrics go: "Yeah she fkn hates me..."

Taking it easy today. I have decided to have a pajama day!

Btw Mandy (Ex SIL) and I had a little spat. We're 'cool' now, but not before I made damn sure she knows I think she's stupid.

You guys would NEVER guess what we argued about.....

so I dare you lol

The clue is parenting....

No takers eh?
Well Sundays are usually slow here... maybe I should wait before spilling the beans....

I'm a taker Lia...

please let them beans spill....

I cannot guess?...

LOL you're always game James

It was about rules, 1 specific rule actually.

Her rule is that going outside when its not rainy requires a hat. Now for her child thats perfectly fine, its HER rule. But today she excluded Jordan from going to the park because Jordan (and myself) didn't agree that it was hat weather and she was wearing sunscreen.

Anywhoo I told her that that is a completely stupid rule to enforce on OTHER people's kids and that my new rule is children can only accompany me when wearing a dress or lipstick!

Which excludes my nephew from any activity I partake in...

I don't mean it obviously, but I just want to say these words once, maybe twice:

"Noach can only come along if he wears lipstick. Rules are rules afterall.... Don't you agree?"

This woman is driving me insane she said she's leaving soon. She obviously needs a dictionary, think I will offer to borrow her one or show her how to download a dictionary app!

thats so clever Lia......
anybody less smart than you would be easily irritated by that one!...
and...therefore the job is done

I believe you would make an exciting and very entertaining lawyer!...

...but you are still too good for that profession

your revised rules are peculiar indeed!.....lol...but they make an intelligently absurd sense designed to challenge but not defy the ridiculous people...

outstanding!

Thank you James. I just can't wait to see her response to my rule.... stupid beeech.

...

oh I'm sure she will try something...but?....no matter how much her eyes are open!

she....(God bless her)...cannot match you even with your eyes shut!

cos you can still see...

get some over the top hats? maybe she wouldn't demand it's worn and done that way.

Nope, wouldn't work. She'd think they're ridiculously entertaining and it would make her feel like she won as I would be inadverdantly condoning her enforcing such idiotic rules on children who did not exit her womb!

No... I think I need to be mean, atleast gradually.

Ha ! Trippin I love you and the way you handle stupidity that surrounds you. You are my hero

LOL! Aawwwww sis You make me blush

I Love you too

Had an ugly argument with Gary ( I was ugly) I cant get angry without screaming profanities or I need to hit / throw something.

I'm just so fkn tired of looking out for everyone and nobody looks out for me. I asked him for 1 thing, to do me 1 favour and he didnt care enough to. After I feed and clothe him, make sure he has razors, toiletries, recreational money, travelling fair, even bought meat the other day for a BBQ he wanted to have with a few friends! After all of this, everyday for years, what I need / want doesn't affect him he says, so why should he be bothered...

btw All I asked was that he help me pack out the scrap in the garage, I've already arranged the transport. So that Rowan can park there in peace because his car was broken into last time he visited me...

Well then I said his money issues dont affect me, he must give back the fkn 100 bucks I just gave him 5 seconds ago for bus fair!

Yes I was mean but it was justified!
and I'm hurt because he KNEW that was my LAST money I gave him and he didnt even appreciate the gesture enough to reciprocate!

Well I got my money back. This house this family is no longer my problem. Jordan and I can eat take out or ready made dinners from now. From now on I only take care of us.

FK EVERYBODY ELSE for real this time! No more half measure fux from me.

Told mom I'm done carrying everyone. I'll pay to rent my room and thats it. She doesn't need to cater for me or Jordan. Told her we are leaving as soon a I get a permanent post. I'm over this shyt.

I've missed so much not keeping up, but it looks as if you're wiining, Trippin. Round
3 coming up soon?

Keep strong.

Sis!

I know how that feels. To take care of everyone and then have them turn on you.

yeah. I'm done with this BS. Gary made me tea and apologized, (mum must have had words with him) doesn't change anything though. I'm not doing him any favours any longer. I mean, I dont do or give because I seek repayment, I do it because I care, and then for someone you've been caring for openly admits to not caring about you?....

Screw this shyt. ADT better make me permanent so I can leave in by the end of 2013!

You can do it, Sis! With your new boss and all the good news from earlier, I bet you will be permanent soon.

Don't think I've ever been this determined!
I hope I can do it sooner rather than later. As it is, its already later! Nearly 30 and never left home because I chose to be a bloody martyr instead!

Well I'm over that outfit, time to go shopping for something a little more selfish

It would be so nice to get to live again with no in-laws under the roof. Just us again... -.-

I pray that happens soob for you

LOL at "soob" WTF is soob? silly me for not reading before hitting "submit". Oh well.

6am now, enroute to work, thinking about devising a "move out" action plan.... Idk where to start though

My bank account is linked to a savings pocket, flexi where amounts are concerned, think I must activate it and put every spare cent in there.... That way I will have a tiny nest egg by the time I do move.

Also now that Gary is working and I made sure mom understood I'm ONLY paying rent, not running around making a plan keeping us afloat, there's no danger of me spending more than what I budget for.

Yes a savings pocket is needed

"soob" the time you look forward to when you no longer live with in-laws.

LMAO! I was right! I had a feeling you'd know what it means, even if I didnt!

I am so happy for you Trippin You don't need to support everyone, just Jordan and yourself !