[greyclouds]

Okay so I said I would post. About this I don't expect comments it's more so I can look back.

I went on. Date Tuesday it's was great , he wants us to go out again tomorrow ,
I've agreed, but he tells me he can't stop thinking about me. I'm wonderful, I'm this and that.
Rather then see that I may actually be these things.
I'm thinking he wants more. Like you know!
Or he just doing this to make me fall then he will drop me like a Ton of bricks.

I still in great mood but these thoughts are crazy. I need to remove them. Maybe he does just like me. And if I don't get rid of these thoughts I'll ruin it any way.
God sake it's only a second date. I wish I didn't feel... So it's been for ages I've been swing him grrr

Just attempt to take it at surface value for now. Try not to read stuff in to it that's not there. Try not to push away, but tell him up front that you've been hurt before and you want to go real slow. If he's not willing to abide by your wishes, drop him, but you need to keep your own emotions in check and not go to fast either for fear that it's all or nothing. I wish you the best of luck.

[BrokenNBeautiful]

Sounds like you may be overwhelmed by all his compliments? idk.

I relate to feeling like I am pressured.

My last bf back in 2007 said all t his and all that to me and it just made me think he wanted to go further. Or it was just a prelude to s*x.

I agree with the advice about going slow. Or maybe even tell him how you feel when he tells you this and that. When Andy (my most recent bf) did that, it felt uncomfortable. I had to keep joking and saying, "Andy, if you keep putting me on that pedestal, you better have a net ready! I can't fall on my *** again". lol

Carol

[LadyShadow]

I think compliments are nice! Take them as face value. Maybe he really does like you. But do mention to him to take it slow. You need to be respected and your feelings need to be taken into account and understood. But try to relax and enjoy yourself and go with the flow. I know its hard but try and pull yourself together and take it for what it is. Good luck and keep us posted!