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#1
Mar 31, 2013, 03:28 PM
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This is a replacement for the previous You know you are Borderline when... thread where we ran into some unexpected technical difficulties.
Last edited by Wren_; Aug 29, 2013 at 03:51 PM. Reason: added trigger icon for thread |
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#2
Mar 31, 2013, 03:56 PM
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You know you're borderline when you're you're sure the traffic lights are conspiring to turn red because they know you're running late.
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 anneo59, FlowerChild67, Fuzzybear, jk2833, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| BeautifullyDeprived, BlueInanna, FlowerChild67, Fuzzybear, jk2833, kittyfaye, Mimiteedy, shortandcute, tigersassy, wadingthruemotions, youwillrise
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#3
Mar 31, 2013, 05:40 PM
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When your friend leaves and you immediately become depressed and hide out in your sisters room in bed like a piece of you has left
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| anonymous91213, Fuzzybear, hawthoerne, meesh53195, Mimiteedy, sans, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, Graves, hawthoerne, Lil Ant Lady, littlebitlost, Mimiteedy, Musique_butterflys, rabbit13, viking83, wadingthruemotions
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#4
Mar 31, 2013, 06:23 PM
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When you go through your cell phone to remove any pictures you want to keep and relive a year's worth of memories...... Sigh...
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| anonymousxyz, Fuzzybear, hawthoerne, littlebitlost, NWgirl2013, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, enigma4567, littlebitlost, NWgirl2013, wadingthruemotions
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#5
Mar 31, 2013, 07:19 PM
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when you feel unforgivable.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness!  |
| Anonymous100185, anonymous91213, enigma4567, hawthoerne, littlebitlost, needinghope, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, ckintower, Disturbed0114, enigma4567, littlebitlost, MDDBPDPTSD, wadingthruemotions
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#6
Mar 31, 2013, 11:36 PM
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When the first conversation you have with your ex-friend since you became ex-friends leaves you feeling desperate and clingy.
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| anneo59, GirlInPink, kittyfaye, needinghope, ready2makenice, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions, youwillrise
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| BeautifullyDeprived, Disturbed0114, enigma4567, jk2833, mezaam, River11, tigersassy, viking83, youwillrise
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#7
Apr 01, 2013, 05:24 AM
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When you discuss things with your boyfriend about things you did that were bad 4 years ago and your the one hurting all night rather than him because normal people don't hold on to emotions like bpd : (
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| Anonymous100185, anonymous91213, jk2833, kittyfaye, Mercedes87, needinghope, ready2makenice, rochelle091669, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| Achy Turtle Armor, andwedanced, AngelWolf3, anneo59, catfan, ckintower, Disturbed0114, dumburn, enigma4567, frippet, jk2833, Lil Ant Lady, MDDBPDPTSD, mezaam, Mimiteedy, River11, rochelle091669, shezbut, tigersassy, Verity81
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#8
Apr 01, 2013, 08:28 AM
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When you have sleepless nights worrying about a problem that isn't even yours.
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| Anonymous200104, boo-bearRAWWR!!!, hawthoerne, ready2makenice, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, bluegirl...?, BlueInanna, enigma4567, frippet, MDDBPDPTSD, redbandit, wadingthruemotions
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#9
Apr 01, 2013, 09:11 AM
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When you have to abruptly leave a social situation because the stress has put too much pressure on your usual 'social face' and you're about to have an identity meltdown in public.
Runawayrunawayrunaway!
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| Anonymous100185, Anonymous200104, boo-bearRAWWR!!!, deelooted, Disturbed0114, Musique_butterflys, Phreak, ready2makenice, RuhmaRose, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, BlueInanna, boo-bearRAWWR!!!, deelooted, Disturbed0114, dumburn, enigma4567, frippet, Graves, Happy Camper, isntlifewonderful, ladyontheborderline, MDDBPDPTSD, Mimiteedy, Moodswing, Musique_butterflys, nirvanabanana, Phreak, rabbit13, redbandit, RuhmaRose, ScrewedUpMe, ShatteredOne, silvercloud1989, sunshine74, TheStrange, ThirtySomethingMom, Underhill, Verity81, viking83, wadingthruemotions, Wingnut13
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#10
Apr 01, 2013, 10:16 AM
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When you work as a solicitor basically and someone gets rude, so you automatically think its you're fault and get upset because they were mad even though you know it's just because you have an irritating job
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Why go out and see the world on fire Don't let your mindset become what controls you Speak right now and make the choice to grow |
| hawthoerne, kittyfaye, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| Mimiteedy, River11, simplydivine1030
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#11
Apr 01, 2013, 10:17 AM
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You can't seem to do anything you love in moderation.
For me, I was doing art, for awhile obsessively and I couldn't stop it. Then as always I fizzled out. Now it's gaming... Of course the worst part is, and another thing that is part of being BPD is that I'm beating myself up a lot for not continuing to obsessively create art. :/ |
| anneo59, frippet, hawthoerne, littlebitlost, Mimiteedy, ready2makenice, shezbut, simplydivine1030, wadingthruemotions
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| BeautifullyDeprived, Freewilled, frippet, harry_haller, hawthoerne, la doctora, littlebitlost, meesh53195, ready2makenice, shezbut, Side of the Angels, tigersassy, viking83, wadingthruemotions
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#12
Apr 01, 2013, 11:29 AM
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Quote:
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| anneo59, enigma4567, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, enigma4567, frippet, wadingthruemotions
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#13
Apr 01, 2013, 12:48 PM
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You write your thoughts down, presumably for therapeutic reasons, and then you read it over and over and over and over and over and over.... staying in the angry feelings.
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| anneo59, frippet, Mimiteedy, wadingthruemotions
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| anneo59, BeautifullyDeprived, ComicBooksAreFun90, demoncard, dumburn, Freewilled, frippet, littlebitlost, Mimiteedy, Phreak, rise__above, tigersassy, Verity81, wadingthruemotions
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#14
Apr 01, 2013, 05:01 PM
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How I can relate to this so much. |
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#15
Apr 01, 2013, 05:21 PM
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when you realize that people are not out to get you but you secretly feel betrayed anyway
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Love, Light and Happiness!!! |
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| anneo59, BlueInanna, Cheshire Grin, Freewilled, frippet, littlebitlost, MDDBPDPTSD, Mimiteedy, nycgal448, ready2makenice, ThirtySomethingMom, tigersassy, Verity81
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Apr 01, 2013, 06:39 PM
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When you've had a long hard and very social day and you have to tell your partner to give you a couple of hours to gather yourself before you explode
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I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship
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| greentires4me, simplydivine1030
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| anneo59, Bill3, Freewilled, frippet, Lil Ant Lady, ready2makenice, rise__above, Verity81
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#17
Apr 02, 2013, 04:42 AM
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When you're fed up with constant mood swings.
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| Britneigh, hawthoerne
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| anneo59, BeautifullyDeprived, BlueInanna, Freewilled, frippet, MoxieDoxie, tigersassy, yoli-wa
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#18
Apr 02, 2013, 10:13 AM
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Am I borderline? Really? I think I'm perfectly fine just how I am (right now)
(hope everyone gets my point) |
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#19
Apr 02, 2013, 10:58 AM
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When you know you have a budget but all you can think about is going on a shopping spree.
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Life's so dark when every day is a struggle
Why go out and see the world on fire Don't let your mindset become what controls you Speak right now and make the choice to grow |
| anneo59, Bill3, Cheshire Grin, simplydivine1030
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#20
Apr 02, 2013, 11:43 AM
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#21
Apr 02, 2013, 12:51 PM
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When you keep realizing that they're not actually talking about you. And you feel guilty every time.
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| anneo59, BeautifullyDeprived, Cheshire Grin, ComicBooksAreFun90, deelooted, FallingAme
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#22
Apr 02, 2013, 12:55 PM
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When, for reasons unknown to you, you get offended by comments that are not directed at you and do not apply to you.
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| anneo59, Bamboo_RedPanda, Bill3, BlueInanna, Cheshire Grin, ComicBooksAreFun90, frippet, hawthoerne, littlebitlost, shezbut, tigersassy
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#23
Apr 02, 2013, 01:06 PM
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When a short reply always means that the person has figured you out and now resents you. Even if you were expecting a short reply. And when one person resents you, it follows logically that everyone else does too.
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| Bill3, Cheshire Grin, frippet, whoever123
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| anneo59, Cheshire Grin, Freewilled, frippet, MDDBPDPTSD, shezbut, tigersassy
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#24
Apr 02, 2013, 03:07 PM
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When your partner seems to notice that you're being clingy, so you take that as them not liking you anymore, and you become even more clingy.
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| anneo59, Anonymous33255, Cheshire Grin, simplydivine1030
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| Altinak, anneo59, Bill3, BrokenNBeautiful, Cheshire Grin, Eevvee, enigma4567, facingdemons, FallingAme, Freewilled, frippet, Hedocakes, littlebitlost, MDDBPDPTSD, monochromatic, NicklesPickles, shezbut, tigersassy, Verity81, Wingnut13
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#25
Apr 02, 2013, 04:03 PM
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You still feel that you can never reach second base in a friendship or even have one. You are only surviving and relating to people only when absolutely necessary. You still have no priviledge to someone's personal space (email, home, phone, text, etc.) and even when you do get that priviledge, you are sure you are going to lose it again.
I think I too lost a friend. IRL. After I worked very hard to get it back. BPD is so baffling.
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The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness! |
| anneo59, Anonymous33255, Bill3, Freewilled, hawthoerne, karaoke_queen4, shezbut, simplydivine1030
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| anneo59, ComicBooksAreFun90, enigma4567, FallingAme, Freewilled, Musique_butterflys, shezbut, Verity81, Wingnut13
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