4) You know you are Borderline when...

FallingAme · May 30, 2013, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Luctor

When jealousy isn't just a cute little word but the vile green monster who has the ability to completely distort reality to the point of delusion.

Couldn't agree more.

FallingAme · May 30, 2013, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Maranara

When fighting the demons and impulses within are harder than any physical battle could ever be.

I've been fighting my own little battle.

FallingAme · May 30, 2013, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by nevergoodenough

When you delete someone's number so that you don't feel compelled to text them, wanting them to text you first. A part of you thinks they won't, and you're tempted to text them (their number is stored in your memory).

Done it to my bf thousands of times.

FallingAme · May 30, 2013, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by bluefish27

When almost every post on this thread feels as if someone has been reading your mind and spying in your life. So sorry for all of the pain here.....but SO grateful to not be alone with it.

I can totally relate to all of it as well.

FallingAme · May 30, 2013, 01:04 AM

When you've blocked your partner from facebook a thousand times and befriend him, again, A THOUSAND TIMES.

hezaa82 · May 30, 2013, 06:44 AM

When one of my students doesn't show up for English class and rather than going to the afterschool care room to try and find her, I just let it go and hope that it will sort itself out (hope the problem will go away if I ignore it?) An hour later she shows up with the afterschool teacher saying that they were mistaken about what time class starts and I feel like an a**hole. why can't I be more proactive

Atypical_Disaster · May 30, 2013, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by FallingAme

When you've blocked your partner from facebook a thousand times and befriend him, again, A THOUSAND TIMES.

Done that, so many times.

Luvmydog · May 30, 2013, 11:32 AM

...you feel as though you are on a roller coaster with a loop the loop, and you realize that you aren't wearing a seatbelt.

May 30, 2013, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by hezaa82

When one of my students doesn't show up for English class and rather than going to the afterschool care room to try and find her, I just let it go and hope that it will sort itself out (hope the problem will go away if I ignore it?) An hour later she shows up with the afterschool teacher saying that they were mistaken about what time class starts and I feel like an a**hole. why can't I be more proactive

Why is it your responsibility to manage the student's time? You shouldn't feel like an a**hole. Gosh what happened to students being held responsible for themselves showing up anyway? o.O

hezaa82 · May 30, 2013, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006

Why is it your responsibility to manage the student's time? You shouldn't feel like an a**hole. Gosh what happened to students being held responsible for themselves showing up anyway? o.O

I forgot to mention that my students are 5 years old so keeping track of them is part of my job. That's the way it works here in Japan at least.

May 30, 2013, 05:44 PM

When text message makes you cry and sends you into a rage at the same time

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lil-angel-wings · May 30, 2013, 06:19 PM

when your better half leaves for two days and your completely lost with out him

greentires4me · May 30, 2013, 07:52 PM

you lack motivation at cooking dinner for oneself so you stuff your face with ice cream bars two muffins maybe some chips and cold pop....

Arethusa · May 30, 2013, 09:57 PM

...you constantly need validation that your significant other really truly cares for you.

kare2bear · May 30, 2013, 10:18 PM

You get pissed at your therapist...and break up with them. But you secretly hope they will beg you to come back because they think youre so interesting and like spending time with you.

But they dont and now youre stuck w/o a therapist...and your pride keeps you from going back

May 31, 2013, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by FallingAme

When you've blocked your partner from facebook a thousand times and befriend him, again, A THOUSAND TIMES.

My tendency to do this kind of stuff is the reason why one of my good friends won't be my friend on Facebook in the first place. I mean, it's Facebook and it's not all that important, but it still makes me feel kind of bad.

May 31, 2013, 01:45 PM

When you re-read a text message from yesterday, and get upset all over again.

Elektra_ · May 31, 2013, 02:25 PM

when u feel like an idiot for believing that this time someone could actually love u but they couldnt give a ****

Luvmydog · May 31, 2013, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Arethusa

...you constantly need validation that your significant other really truly cares for you.

So true and maddening for both of us.

Luvmydog · May 31, 2013, 05:45 PM

someone says that they are really trying, and you mentally add "my patience"

10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Luvmydog

someone says that they are really trying, and you mentally add "my patience"

I feel like the borderline is actually the one who says that they are really trying, while everyone else around them mentally adds "my patience." Could just be my perception of my circumstances though.

shortandcute · May 31, 2013, 08:23 PM

......when you can't wait to see your therapist again because you need to get things off your chest, but when you actually see her again, you clam and try to pretend everything's fine..........when people think you have a "split personality" or are "two different people"....when you feel really upset about your kitten getting sick, but you can't bring yourself to cry when one of your best friends dies

Luvmydog · May 31, 2013, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by misskeena

I feel like the borderline is actually the one who says that they are really trying, while everyone else around them mentally adds "my patience." Could just be my perception of my circumstances though.

You know misskeena, I think you might be right about that one.

FallingAme · Jun 01, 2013, 04:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Elektra_

when u feel like an idiot for believing that this time someone could actually love u but they couldnt give a ****

Wow, I understand completely. I honestly think my boyfriend doesn't give a **** or that he EVEN loves me for that mater.

shortandcute · Jun 02, 2013, 11:20 AM

.....when you lost a lot of weight by laying off the junk food, so you start pigging out on it again because you're sure it'll be different this time--and then you honestly can't understand why you've gained some of the weight back

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