Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Nov 16, 2014, 09:44 AM
Jebo94 Jebo94 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Birmingham
Posts: 31
Things have been goin downhill a lot over the past couple of days.

It reached a point where this morning by boyfriend had a lie in and didn't answer one of my texts, at which point I sent him a lot more, and became increasingly worried, resulting in a major argument with my best friend, worrying his flat mate and calling the local A&E departments.

I've also started having some really tricky feelings about feed and my own self image, and I've been struggling to find a 'middle ground' between working too much or doing nothing all day. I've been having suicidal thoughts, and thoughts relating to harming others.... Although nothing has been acted on. And my moods are going from mega happy to mega depressed very quickly. I hate being on my own, yet I hate being around large groups of people. And whilst I like someone in the same room as me, I'm not a major fan of physical contact atm, which is putting a strain on my relationship.

I don't know where to turn to any more
Hugs from:
Crazy Hitch

advertisement
  #2  
Old Nov 16, 2014, 10:20 AM
jeremiahgirl's Avatar
jeremiahgirl jeremiahgirl is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2007
Location: In the South
Posts: 812
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jebo94 View Post
Things have been goin downhill a lot over the past couple of days.

It reached a point where this morning by boyfriend had a lie in and didn't answer one of my texts, at which point I sent him a lot more, and became increasingly worried, resulting in a major argument with my best friend, worrying his flat mate and calling the local A&E departments.

I've also started having some really tricky feelings about feed and my own self image, and I've been struggling to find a 'middle ground' between working too much or doing nothing all day. I've been having suicidal thoughts, and thoughts relating to harming others.... Although nothing has been acted on. And my moods are going from mega happy to mega depressed very quickly. I hate being on my own, yet I hate being around large groups of people. And whilst I like someone in the same room as me, I'm not a major fan of physical contact atm, which is putting a strain on my relationship.

I don't know where to turn to any more

I'm sorry things are tough for you Jebo, sometimes when things get tough we may need to step back and let the dust settle. I know that's hard to say when we're in relationships, but sometimes space helps all of us to re-focus.
Right now I too am having relationship problems not with my personal life because I choose to be alone and single, but with my psych dr, and psych nurse who seem to be ignoring me. I may end up loosing both of them, this pluse physical health issues I'm struggling to be heard. I'm not sure what the out come will be for either problem I have, but I know sometimes we need change to get a different view.
__________________
[SIGPIC][SIGPIC]
Forgiveness is not always easy but is possible!
  #3  
Old Nov 16, 2014, 02:12 PM
Crazy Hitch's Avatar
Crazy Hitch Crazy Hitch is offline
ɘvlovƎ
 
Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: Australia
Posts: 26,999
I am sorry that you are not in a good place right now.

Things can spiral out of control pretty quickly.

I've read frequent stories here about what happens when someone doesn't respond to something like a text. It can cause a magnitude of problems and a flooding of texts in return so just know that you are most certainly not alone in this. I have this problem when it comes to people not replying to my emails ....

Finding the middle ground is challenging because it's hard for us to see the grey area. We can think in terms of all or nothing or black and white, night or day.

Your thoughts sound really serious.

I think you do need to see a mental health practitioner, sooner rather than later.

Do you have a T you can see to discuss this issue with them?
  #4  
Old Nov 16, 2014, 02:55 PM
Jebo94 Jebo94 is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Nov 2014
Location: Birmingham
Posts: 31
Thanks guys..... I feel a little less alone now. Still feel a bit uncomfortable with myself though.

I hope things get better for you jeramiahgirl you're not alone.

Hooligan. I don't have a T any more. I had issues with a substitute doctor, and ended up being discharged from all services. I don't have anyone to speak to anymore. I feel worthless
Hugs from:
Crazy Hitch
  #5  
Old Nov 16, 2014, 09:56 PM
Crazy Hitch's Avatar
Crazy Hitch Crazy Hitch is offline
ɘvlovƎ
 
Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: Australia
Posts: 26,999
I'm sorry to hear you don't have anyone to talk to anymore.

We're always here at psych central to listen
Reply
Views: 611

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:42 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.