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Mar 03, 2011, 06:40 AM
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I found out tonight that my ex is going to have a baby (well not him but his fiancee)... I always expected the news I guess, after catching them together I have always known that she wanted to fall pregnant - she mentioned it to people I know and talk with.
It's been a year since the break up.. a little longer infact. So why does the news make me want to break down and sob? Firstly them getting engaged 2 months after the break up - that was bad enough but I survived.... now the pregnancy thing. I hate him and her.. trully hate them. I want karma to come back around and bite them on the arse. I regret having ever spent/wasted 6 years with him.... Why do the 'bad' people get to live the life that I wanted so much to have?
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Mar 03, 2011, 07:18 AM
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belle
 i think your feelings are coming from what ifs. tho you and your ex have been parted for some time it's kind of like opening an old wound. in time you won't have these feelings. just be kind to yourself-how bout a new outfit or sumthin'. sorry for your sadness and glad you posted so we can comfort you.
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Mar 03, 2011, 08:48 AM
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Mar 03, 2011, 01:52 PM
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I'm so sorry you're hurting so much. I can understand. I remember many years ago when a guy I loved ended up marrying someone else. It tore me to pieces. But I couldn't hate him -- I wanted him to be happy, and evidently he couldn't be happy with ME.
 Do you REALLY think your ex is BAD??? I don't think so.  That's just the hurt talking. If you thought he was "bad" you wouldn't be crying over him. This pain WILL end, I promise you. I will take some time ~ patience is the key here. I remember not WANTING to be patient. I wanted the pain to stop YESTERDAY. But each day it will hurt less just a little. It might not seem like it, but it will. Soon you'll discover that the pain is gone ~ and you'll have someone else in your life.  Don't harden your heart so that no one else can come in. I wish you all the best ~ my thoughts & prayers are with you. God bless. Hugs, Lee |
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Mar 03, 2011, 02:01 PM
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I probably shouldn't post because I'm upset myself ATM. I can understand why you hate him because I've felt this way. You know what, babies are great but truthfully they're incredibly stressful and straining on even the best of relationships. If theirs isn't in A1 condition, they'll be slapped in the face with a does of reality and dirty diapers, not to mention the moddiness/neediness she'll be going through. The grass won't be greener for long lol.
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Mar 03, 2011, 09:19 PM
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Thanks Lynn
I am hoping you are right xxLeeds, yes he is a bad person... the things that he did to me were terrible... Thanks Madisgram xx Pachyderm... we can wait for the bad things to happen to the bad people together
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Mar 03, 2011, 09:58 PM
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(((((Belle))))Karma exists sweety.....I just really think so.I feel compelled to tell you that my gratitude for your support while I have fluttered around this site in pain...has not gone without many a recall.I am so sorry to think that you are in any pain whatsoever.Please try to be loving to you amidst this turmoil.You want to break down and sob because it is a shock to you.You were unprepared to learn of this.You have not had time to walk through the process of healing on this point.But,Belle you will come out the other side.Someone ,if not now....will be a lucky man to call you their heart.~W~
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Mar 04, 2011, 04:45 AM
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Thank you Wolffy
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