[twofaces]

Look, I am pretty serious about this.. And probably this is more serious than anything I have posted.

I am a very sensitive person, and emotion eats me out when I feel offended, which obviously people wouldn't care if I'm offended or not.

and I think I talked about this before, but I REALLY REALLLY REALLY REALLY SUPER REALLY lack reason.

No one tells me I'm stupid, and in fact I do good jobs in assignments and things that require me to think. But in front of people, confronting a person is the thing I HATE the most, and the thing I hate next is when they comment back to me with LOGIC.

Why? Because I cannot reply to that comment with LOGIC, with SENSE.

It is really distressing when I comment something that totally does not make sense and when another person gets offended or did not get sense out of it, I have to facepalm and apologize.

Look, my father criticized about this, tons of internet posters criticized about this, and even in chat I offended people because of my lack of reason.


I hate to live like this.. Probably I will watch another depressing film and get my head smacked so that I can understand how HAPPY life I am living in compared to girls who are illegally being prostituted in some part of Russia. (And even in my home country)

[Bipolar1Disorder]

Originally Posted by twofaces

I hate to live like this.. Probably I will watch another depressing film and get my head smacked so that I can understand how HAPPY life I am living in compared to girls who are illegally being prostituted in some part of Russia. (And even in my home country)

Boys don't need to compare themselves to girls or it throws of the train of thought. Just saying...

[twofaces]

Originally Posted by Bipolar1Disorder

I get this way when I am cycling depression and I can't think fast and have no logic either. R U depressed? When I am manic I get fast witty and smart and have impeccable logic. R U bipolar? What R U? let me know more about your mental status so I can make an educated guess.

But don't let it bother you for now. You are who you are girl and no one can take that from you. Logic comes when there is something to be logical about and your time will come. :-)

Thank you, and I am a boy by the way

I don't even know about myself. I need to get diagnosed and get this freak out of me.

[Bipolar1Disorder]

Originally Posted by twofaces

Thank you, and I am a boy by the way

I don't even know about myself. I need to get diagnosed and get this freak out of me.

Comparing yourself to a girl would lead one to believe your a girl.Lol.
It may well be that your depressed. Until you get more info about your status it would seem that your in a state of illogical limbo which is not the name of a new dance, but it should be. Hang in there and get diagnosed so you can feel better about yourself...and quit comparing yourself to girls. :-)

[Bipolar1Disorder]

I tried to copy past a quote above to make a point and ended up changing the original somehow...Oh well!!! So you all know what happened. My bad.

[twofaces]

Originally Posted by Bipolar1Disorder

I tried to copy past a quote above to make a point and ended up changing the original somehow...Oh well!!! So you all know what happened. My bad.

You seem to have misunderstand. God whatever I don't even know what I'm saying anyways, and people just don't understand what I said

I didn't want to be a girl, and I was referring to that girl in the movie to say that I live happier life compared to the girls who are being exploited in developing countries.

Misunderstandings like this make me tired, as well as others

[Jan1212]

Do you think you're getting anxiety when you're talking to people? It makes you blank out, your thoughts slip and you end up not making sense.

Can you give us a specific example of your comment and the people's reaction so we could have a better understanding of your situation? Is it impulsion? Is it because you can't find the right words?

We don't see intent clearly online; we don't see people's facial expression or body language, just words - and this makes interpretation difficult.

Could it be that you strongly have your beliefs on controversial topics, and you're just trying to be persuasive? while they have theirs so in some cases, logic can't make one right or wrong, it depends.

It seems you compare yourself to the less fortunate for a reason to live happy, I really feel like this isn't the best way to cope. Comparing of any kind is not beneficial when one thinks like that, I try to avoid saying "Think of the children in Africa". It's hard since we live in a mass media influenced society. Your life isn't based on what people have or don't have - or who you're related to or who you know or what others think of you. Live your life at your own pace, nobody teaches you that really, can I ask how old are you?

[madisgram]

But in front of people, confronting a person is the thing I HATE the most, and the thing I hate next is when they comment back to me with LOGIC.

welcome to pc. after reading your sincere post a couple of thoughts-when conversing with someone that responds with LOGIC you can say, gee, i never thought about that in that way. we can all learn from others and vice-versa.
do you feel hostile when you confront someone? we all have our opinions on things. their point is theirs. yours is yours. nothing is black and white. i'd suggest you try to find a middle of the road approach. we are heard more often, imo, when we keep an open mind. and respecting our differences neutralizes the conversation.
i hope this may offer you positive advice.

[Perna]

Originally Posted by twofaces

Probably I will watch another depressing film and get my head smacked so that I can understand how HAPPY life I am living in compared to girls who are illegally being prostituted in some part of Russia. (And even in my home country)

Yes, that does not make logical sense, if you are a boy.

I'm thinking you just have trouble switching gears. If you say, "how happy life I am living is compared to girls who are illegally being prostituted. . ." you are comparing yourself to other people, who happen to be girls, and what you imagine their lives must be like so the person (like me :-) who then says, "gee, why are you comparing yourself to girls if you are a boy?" is the one who is having the problem, not you; stay with them and "answer" their logical question/statement with whatever answer you have, which might be, "because I imagine girls being prostituted in Russia have worse problems than I do and the person's gender does not matter to me; if you prefer, "how happy the life I am living is compared to boys who are illegally being prostituted".

You do not need logic, you have your own style/words/thoughts and, when discussing you and what you are feeling/experiencing they are fine.

[IowaFarmGal]

Some people use logic like a trap and a weapon too, so maybe it's their fault, not yours.

[MimaCindy]

Hey IowaFarmGal! I absolutely love your statement!! I had an "Ah-ha" moment about 2 months ago with my relationship with my parents (who are divorced), my daughter, and my husband...I felt/feel like I am crazy and it is NOT ME...it is them reflecting their issues on me~ what I am guilty of is believing that some how it is me...and trying to "fix" myself...I feel like I am really on to something and what they saw as a weakness in my personality and character I let them manipulate and convince me of something that was not true!! I am really excited!!