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Old Jul 20, 2013, 05:47 PM
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Sat here writing a post using my mobile device, andstupid me hit something that refeshed the page and i lost the lot so here it goes again,
Tonight feeling all sorts of emotions, son being loud and disrespectful towards me in front of his gf, hubby wants to know if im all right after i had asked him three times something then goes andasks me that same thing grrrr.
Bit deep down these are small things, we are still waiting for policeto get to a decission, then daughter explained they cant afford to fight anymore for little man and the emotional side of the fight isnt nice, so i know its ealy days but this means little man will be adopted and once that gets going contact will cease and letter box contact will take ove twice a year possibly, so im of too bed to hopefully a better mood tomorrow
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Old Jul 20, 2013, 06:04 PM
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This has got to be so hard for you and your family ((((( Katheryn )))))

I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that those who are making the decisions about your grandson are lead properly and that the outcome is in his best interest.

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Old Jul 22, 2013, 04:32 PM
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today a letter arrived from the solicitor saying he had contacted the council (social services)inviting them to re-visit the assessment of daughter and partner, he says he cant promise anything but it is worth putting some pressure on them to do so , so know daughter doesn't know weather to struggle on and ask the judge to allow them into the court proceedings, there is a lot at stake and the emotional and financial side of this can be quite high
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Old Jul 22, 2013, 04:38 PM
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It bites that money is something that can prevent us from having the healthy relationship kids need. Im so sorry for you Katheryn. Keep trying to bear up. Its hard, I know.
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Old Jul 22, 2013, 05:01 PM
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it sounds like life circumstances are really overwhelming you. I pray you have the strength to cope with your difficulties and that balance is restored to your life.
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 05:05 AM
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today i printed of and delivered three copy's of a letter that daughter wrote to the judge , which i have placed in the post hopefully with this and the mother and my son asking that daughter be reconsidered for guardianship of our grandson just waiting now
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Old Jul 25, 2013, 08:41 AM
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((((((kathy)))))))))))))))))))))) My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
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Old Jul 26, 2013, 05:01 PM
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looks like the letter and the pressure from sons solicitor has started a ball rolling the social worker rang daughter yesterday asking when was best time to ring to speak to them both, daughter replied with today and she rang back today and has asked when they are in Cornwall daughter explained partner couldn't get time of work and she would be here for next court case, social worker asked if partner could make it after the court case so they could see the guardian for the court so they both visiting soon daughter will be here first and her partner will come all the way down for one day :0
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Old Jul 27, 2013, 02:26 PM
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That's great news Katheryn! I hope the outcome is a positive one for your family!
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