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Old Dec 19, 2023, 08:19 AM
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I am feeling annoyed because someone said to my face that because you don't use facebook we can't be friends

Wow I never knew it was such a status cymbol.. at least to me, the idea of using facebook seems so outdated
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 09:28 AM
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I am feeling annoyed because someone said to my face that because you don't use facebook we can't be friends

Wow I never knew it was such a status cymbol.. at least to me, the idea of using facebook seems so outdated
Facebook is lots of things, but has nothing to do with real friendships imo.
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Old Dec 19, 2023, 09:29 AM
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Coping by having a good swear earlier and then a little cry today. Let it out.

And more positively I’m listening to Nat King Cole (not the Christmas ones!) and Louis Armstrong on Spotify. Very nice.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 04:03 AM
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By being assertive. My therapist was awful yesterday so I said something about it. Today is my last day. I am done with therapy. I cope with books and ChatGPT. I get more help from them. Therapists aren't helpful anymore. My issues are usually ignored.
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 04:11 AM
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I feel great! Slept a solid 3 hours and am ready for the day to begin.

I'm going to start my morning meditations in a while(after I finish my coffee).
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Old Dec 20, 2023, 06:59 PM
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I've had an awful lot on my plate, but I would have been in a terrible panic if my daughter hadn't called me this morning. At least I know she's safe. I had a therapy session today, and another one next week. They're not always this frequent, but right now, they should be.
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Old Dec 21, 2023, 10:46 AM
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I am feeling annoyed because someone said to my face that because you don't use facebook we can't be friends

Wow I never knew it was such a status cymbol.. at least to me, the idea of using facebook seems so outdated
WOW! That was very rude
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Old Dec 25, 2023, 08:02 AM
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I am alone for Christmas day as always

no merry christmas, no gifts, no one to spend it with

so yep been better
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Old Dec 25, 2023, 10:21 AM
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Much cooler now than it was last night. That’s good. I too am spending the day alone. But that’s super fine with me. The only downside is I have no phone. That’s scary. I got a new phone and it won’t let me call and my old one shut down.
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Old Dec 25, 2023, 10:53 AM
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I’m feeling a bit more relaxed after yesterday’s horrendous annual crazy time shift at work, so I’m mostly just relieved it’s over.
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Old Dec 26, 2023, 09:04 AM
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I began writing down :eek all the hurts :sadhug I have that I’ve been ruminating over
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Dec 26, 2023, 09:23 AM
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I have a cold, so I took Benadryl, advil, and a spoonful of honey.
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Old Dec 26, 2023, 12:02 PM
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Not brilliantly at the moment. I’ve been crying a lot today about things.
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Old Dec 27, 2023, 12:13 PM
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I have a cold, so I took Benadryl, advil, and a spoonful of honey.
I hope you feel better
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 03, 2024, 07:08 AM
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I'm ruminating and very upset. Someone let me down. So I am depressed. I can't cope with it.
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Old Jan 08, 2024, 12:21 PM
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It's a traumatic anniversary for me, so I could be doing better.
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Old Jan 08, 2024, 01:46 PM
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Not well. Both attorneys I support met with one of the partners. I didn't eavesdrop. I just assumed it's about firing me.
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Old Jan 08, 2024, 03:25 PM
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I wrote a mental health Discord bot so I've been using it for help. It gets its information from ChatGPT. It's very empathetic to me. It helps.
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Old Jan 08, 2024, 09:04 PM
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I did some ShadowWork as well as wrote a list of things to let go.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 09, 2024, 02:43 PM
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I feel sorry, confused and angry at myself and the world. I unlocked regrets from 2016 and only thinking about going back there and fix make me breath
I do wake up at 6.30 in the morning, trying to do my best, but it is over since that year
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Old Jan 09, 2024, 03:22 PM
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I’m reading poetry.
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Old Jan 09, 2024, 04:20 PM
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I spent some time with family and relaxed.
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Old Jan 10, 2024, 12:26 PM
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Not well. Both attorneys I support met with one of the partners. I didn't eavesdrop. I just assumed it's about firing me.
I’m sorry
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Jan 10, 2024, 12:55 PM
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Really tired and run down. Not sleeping well and its making me feel awful. Just so so lonely, I miss my husband.
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Old Jan 10, 2024, 01:16 PM
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I'm not coping well. I need a shower but I can't seem to get motivated.
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