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Old Oct 28, 2024, 09:26 AM
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Playing with the cats with their wand toy.
Sounds adorable
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 05, 2024, 06:14 PM
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Reached out to my mom for support today. She wasn't available. I found out she turned off her phone so she wouldn't be bothered I called my doctor for support. What else was I going to do?
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Old Nov 06, 2024, 09:25 AM
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I donated money to the local animal shelter this morning.
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Old Nov 08, 2024, 12:09 AM
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My mom continues to turn off her phone. She had it off all day or ignored me. I talked to my sister cause I was hurt. She fought with me. Said I have issues. I cried and talked to ChatGPT.
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Old Nov 08, 2024, 10:19 AM
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I have been using feeling charts and journal to figure out what limits beliefs I may have.
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 08, 2024, 09:50 PM
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Heard from my mom today. She is ignoring me. She doesn't have time to talk anymore. I've been watching gurus on YouTube to cope.
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Old Nov 10, 2024, 05:20 PM
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I am trying to figure out : why I let what other people comment headscratch: affects me
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 16, 2024, 05:57 PM
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Talked to a family member at length about the situation at work today.
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Old Nov 17, 2024, 12:11 PM
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I took an Advil earlier and I’m just going to rest today.
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Old Nov 17, 2024, 09:06 PM
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I took an Advil earlier and I’m just going to rest today.
resting is always a good idea
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Everyone can do magic - Cassie Nightgale the good witch.

Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 24, 2024, 03:14 AM
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I lost 8 years of my life, feels like psychotherapist used my story to improve her life while leaving me to death
I don't blame her but she never helped me with my unemployment condition
I used to be so okay just in 2015 compared to now... i had a job and I wonder... maybe it would have gone better if I didn't fall for outer "help"
I watch news from 2015 and feel scammed
I know it is my fault but still someting makes no sense
Possible trigger:
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Old Nov 24, 2024, 09:35 PM
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Talked to a family member at length about the situation at work today.
How did that go?
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 28, 2024, 11:58 AM
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How did that go?
It went well.

Today I am focusing on my reading goal; I will probably make it—I just need to buckle down a little bit…
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Old Nov 28, 2024, 02:07 PM
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I'm not coping today at all, feeling so alone and have nobody to talk to.
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Old Nov 28, 2024, 10:43 PM
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It went well.

Today I am focusing on my reading goal; I will probably make it—I just need to buckle down a little bit…
awesome
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Old Nov 29, 2024, 09:23 PM
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I’m ripping my nails off down to the quick, unfortunately.
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Old Nov 30, 2024, 12:27 PM
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I'm not coping today at all, feeling so alone and have nobody to talk to.
I do feel for you, @lala997? This is an awful situation to be in. It’s even worse at this time of year, when expectations can be high, and the Christmas tsunami is building.

This is a good place to reach out to people. What is it specifically that you are not coping with?
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Old Nov 30, 2024, 12:29 PM
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I’m ripping my nails off down to the quick, unfortunately.
Not a good feeling, @FloatThruThis. What is it that is stressing you?
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Old Nov 30, 2024, 02:03 PM
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Not a good feeling, @FloatThruThis. What is it that is stressing you?
It’s more of an unfortunate habit than what is stressing me.
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Old Dec 02, 2024, 06:46 AM
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I'm not coping today at all, feeling so alone and have nobody to talk to.
I feel alone too.
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

In death come peace. But pain is the cost of living.

Like love, it's how we know we're alive.

And life goes on.

That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Rotten past couple of days emotionally. Such a hatred that burns in me sometimes, it's awful and scares me. But feeling very different today, better, calmer, and needing to work further still on myself to prevent this from happening quite regularly. I can't accept it. I think it might be more self anger for wasting time on certain people in real life, in conjunction with my already broken soul.
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Old Dec 03, 2024, 02:08 AM
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I found a way to get therapy again for this month.
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Old Dec 03, 2024, 09:38 AM
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The only way i can cope is by looking at documents and photos from 2015 and before
Time where i was still able to do things, work, studying, have friends
When the love of my life was still there
When my family was still there
Life have been a nightmare for almost ten years now
I don't mind if I am alone; it is the guilt that kills
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Old Dec 03, 2024, 10:52 AM
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Took an Advil because my fingers still hurt from what I did to them Friday and focusing on my reading goal, specifically the book I have checked out through the libby app.
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Old Dec 03, 2024, 01:28 PM
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It would be less painful for me if people literally stabbed me in the gut instead of asking how my holiday was. One down, 3 to go. People are SO UNAWARE of the nuances in people’s lives

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How are you coping today? #8

Hmmm....looks like some good tips in here.


How are you coping today? #8

"Okay, enough photos. I'm a very BUSY Business Kitty, so make an appointment next time."
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