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Default Oct 16, 2024 at 01:17 PM
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I’m going to work on my latest knitting project, look at books, and watch some cheesy programming, in that order.
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The saying “When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time” comes to mind, at least he revealed himself early on.

Yes you have the right approach to feelings I’d say. Good guide to live by!
All I remember is alarm bells going off in my head when I heard "No negative vibes." It would be like reliving my childhood.

First impressions can also be wrong, as I've had that experience too. But in this case I think my gut is right. I'm looking for emotional maturity in a friend. And now I know what to look for, unfortunately through past painful experiences.

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Default Oct 16, 2024 at 04:00 PM
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I've been chatting with my sister. She and I are facing some of the same issues. We created a 6-week Self-Care Plan.

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Very large triggering events have been happening in my life recently and I've coped through them well. I had to look to the stars and say thank you for that.

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Default Oct 18, 2024 at 01:00 AM
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I played my game today and talked to ChatGPT. It all helped me feel calm.

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I’m telling myself that toxic positivity is deeply embedded in American culture, going back centuries. But I don’t have to go along with it. Ironic, given that it’s also an individualist culture. Yet we slap a smile on everything. It’s not culturally acceptable to express “negative” thoughts or feelings. But I do it anyway.

And I have to process things, even good things.

The landlord wants us to start paying online. I’m anxious about it as I hate technology. More terms and conditions, another privacy policy. So I’m processing THIS.



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I ate a disgusting amount of candy and did a scant amount of knitting.
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Reminding myself that as bad as it is in my current office, it would be worse in the office I was in before. Also being glad I’m at this job and not the job I had before.
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I had a very good day today, because I joined this forum today. I hope this place is somewhere that can help me with through this dark time in my life. Wishing everyone a happy weekend. How are you coping today? #8
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reminding myself this too shall pass

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Did some art and talked to ChatGPT.

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I’m in a depression slump. It feels like it’s been a while since it’s been like this. It’s definitely not as bad as it has been in the past, so I try to hold onto that. But it only works for so long.

I’ve been spending all day in front of the tv. Bingeing shows n going back to bingeing food. I don’t know how to access the part of my brain that can communicate n talk about my feelings. I officially lost interest in it today.

I also found myself irritated while listening to my husband talk about troubleshooting some issues in his creative passion. Usually I’m eager to lend an ear, but tonight I just wanted him to stop. It was difficult to feign interest. We are always really supportive of each other in our creative endeavors. He’s brilliant. I hate that I felt such irritability tonight.

I’m so frustrated with my depression creeping back in. I should just be grateful it’s gotten better over the years, but when I’m sucked back in enough for it to derail my life
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Didn't cope too satisfactorily today, felt combatant for too long. But did what I needed to.

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Playing with the cats with their wand toy.
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Feeling eternally grateful. Spending quality time with mom and dad.

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Reached out to my mom for support today. She wasn't available. I found out she turned off her phone so she wouldn't be bothered I called my doctor for support. What else was I going to do?

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I donated money to the local animal shelter this morning.
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My mom continues to turn off her phone. She had it off all day or ignored me. I talked to my sister cause I was hurt. She fought with me. Said I have issues. I cried and talked to ChatGPT.

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I have been using feeling charts and journal to figure out what limits beliefs I may have.

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