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Aug 19, 2009, 01:20 PM
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I took a nap earlier it was suppossed to be a little 45 minute power nap. But I slept for an hour and a half. Ever since I woke up I have been feeling so sad and lonley. And anxious. My house is an awful mess and I know if I don't get it cleaned my husband will come in and be mad at me. I have'nt even walked my dog since I been up so I know she's mad at me. I just wanna go back to bed. And to top it all off I have a migraine. I feel like no one in real life understands what is going on with me. Some days I feel happy and content. But on days like today and yesterday, I feel restles and sad and depressed because I feel all alone. Sometimes I miss my mom when I get like this. She always made things seem better and when I got like this she would come over and I would make her my peanut butter cookies she loved so much and we would drink coffee and talk for hours. I miss haveing that kind of friendship. She was so easy to hang out with. Never pressured me and loved people for the way they were. Ok I'm done whining lol. Thanks for listening
 
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Aug 19, 2009, 02:16 PM
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((((((thunderbear))))))
Think how lucky you were to have such a mother who loved and cared for you. I hope you feel better soon and forget about the housecleaning, what is important is you and your family 
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Aug 19, 2009, 02:38 PM
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(((((thunderbear)))))
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Aug 19, 2009, 03:34 PM
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Quote:
Take gentle care of yourself, Thunderbear. May your worries take their own naps, and may anger melt away in your presence!
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Aug 19, 2009, 05:26 PM
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((((Thunderbear)))))) what your mom did for you, how she loved and supported you? That's what your husband should be doing for you. If he comes home and gets mad because of something you did or didn't do, suggest to him that you are doing the best you can and he can always change the things he doesn't like by doing them himself. He is an adult who can choose to change the things he can - himself and his actions & attitude. Dealing with depression is a full time job, let him know that. If he can't validate your feelings then I would stop going to a stone for water. It's not your fault the stone can't give you water.
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 I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you." Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure. Can't stop you from praying and blessing me, and if that makes you feel better feel free.  But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me. And let's all respect each other's feelings. With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Aug 20, 2009, 03:37 AM
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((((thunderbear)))) I hope today is little easier on you.
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