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Old Sep 03, 2009, 08:39 AM
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Old Sep 03, 2009, 03:21 PM
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Not Good i cried all night My friend and i have been through alot and i miss him
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Old Sep 03, 2009, 03:43 PM
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Not Good i cried all night My friend and i have been through alot and i miss him
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Old Sep 03, 2009, 06:49 PM
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Not Good i cried all night My friend and i have been through alot and i miss him

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Old Sep 03, 2009, 07:08 PM
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Old Sep 03, 2009, 11:28 PM
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Thanks everyone. Its been tough. I came home from work today. Got out early and just slept all night which i needed. So tired. Its alot on me because i want to be there for a friend and just feel like i am not doing enough. We have been close for 2 yrs and i always tried to help. He has someone else in his life now and it makes me sad. Hope this doesnt sound selfish . The most important thing is him to be well. And if she helps great. I just sometimes feel but i was there for you for yrs and kinda pushed away. I know its a little selfish to think that way and then that makes me feel worse so i cry more.
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Old Sep 03, 2009, 11:41 PM
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Please don't feel bad about feeling sad about your friend. We've all been there at one time or another. It does hurt. I hope you feel better soon.
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 12:39 AM
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Thanks Lynn Sometimes i feel not good enough
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 12:57 AM
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Thanks Lynn Sometimes i feel not good enough
I'm so sorry you feel bad (((((((((((feelingsad)))))))))). Lots of hugs for you.
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 07:41 AM
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Thanks everyone. Its been tough. I came home from work today. Got out early and just slept all night which i needed. So tired. Its alot on me because i want to be there for a friend and just feel like i am not doing enough. We have been close for 2 yrs and i always tried to help. He has someone else in his life now and it makes me sad. Hope this doesnt sound selfish . The most important thing is him to be well. And if she helps great. I just sometimes feel but i was there for you for yrs and kinda pushed away. I know its a little selfish to think that way and then that makes me feel worse so i cry more.
Ouch. That hurts. You're not being selfish, you're being human. It hurts when a friendship changes, and you are right to allow yourself to cry. You aren't judgmental toward your friend, don't be judgmental toward yourself.
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 09:51 AM
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Ouch. That hurts. You're not being selfish, you're being human. It hurts when a friendship changes, and you are right to allow yourself to cry. You aren't judgmental toward your friend, don't be judgmental toward yourself.
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 03:30 PM
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Ouch. That hurts. You're not being selfish, you're being human. It hurts when a friendship changes, and you are right to allow yourself to cry. You aren't judgmental toward your friend, don't be judgmental toward yourself.
Seabirdanne is sooo right (((((FeelingSad))))). We experience these changes, these "little deaths" throughout our lives - losses that must be grieved just like any other loss. Allow yourself to go through the process and eventually you will be able to celebrate the time you had with your friend instead of just continuing to feel the pain of the loss.
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 03:51 PM
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Thank you everyone! I do have to clear something up. Him and I are still close friends. Will be for life So im not losing a friend we are just in a weird spot now. Love you guys!
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Old Sep 04, 2009, 10:32 PM
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Thank you everyone! I do have to clear something up. Him and I are still close friends. Will be for life So im not losing a friend we are just in a weird spot now. Love you guys!
Sometimes I have to mourn a change in a friendship just as much as a loss. It can be really, really hard.
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Old Sep 05, 2009, 01:58 AM
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Aw Tumnus thank you! Long story but i was unprepared for it and it hurts trying to work througg it we are Hugs!!!
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