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Old Oct 29, 2009, 07:51 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2009, 08:06 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2009, 09:00 PM
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Old Oct 29, 2009, 10:16 PM
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I'm sad you're sad, but glad you posted.
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Old Oct 29, 2009, 10:48 PM
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 12:19 AM
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Old Oct 30, 2009, 09:02 AM
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We've all been there and many (me included) are experiencing this with you as we type. Be well.
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Old Oct 31, 2009, 03:55 AM
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Yeah, a lot of us feel sad. But what can we do to try to make ourselves feel better?
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Old Oct 31, 2009, 05:16 AM
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Old Oct 31, 2009, 05:39 AM
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Sorry you have been feeling sad. Are you feeling any better today?
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Old Oct 31, 2009, 09:30 AM
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Good Day, Ariesmars! Any developments - good, bad, indifferent?
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Old Oct 31, 2009, 09:37 AM
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Old Nov 05, 2009, 08:00 PM
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sorry i have not replied...still quite sad and my T today just wont tell me anything about her life. I ask and ask, but she wont. makes me sad. She is a very nice lady, but i want to know...I dont know why i want to know, can anyone tell me why i need to know? I want a friend, but my T's dont want to be my friend.
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Old Nov 05, 2009, 08:36 PM
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Hi, Ariesmars!
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I want a friend, but my T's dont want to be my friend.
Guess: Whether or not your T personally desires to be your friend, she may (probably?) feels she must maintain a respectful emotional distance from you in order to maintain a professional therapeutic relationship with you. She may want you to want friends, but perhaps feels if she opens herself to you it will distract you from attempting to make friends "on the outside." Maybe she's using emotional distance to "nudge" you to seek "real" friends who don't have anything to do with your therapy.

This is all speculation on my part and realize it probably won't make you feel any better about what's going on. Ariesmars, you deserve friends.


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Old Nov 06, 2009, 06:38 AM
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Rohag is right. There is a difference between being a friend and being a therapist, even if your therapist might really, really like you. Part of this is because if they start to value the relationship beyond helping you, then they might not be able to do the difficult things like confronting you or having to send you to the hospital, or showing you a faulty line of reasoning, because then you might get mad. If they keep distance, they would beable to help you in a different, more suitable way than if you weere friends. Don't assume she doesn't like you ariesmars. She probably does. You are just very lucky to have an ethical therapist.
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Old Nov 13, 2009, 10:39 PM
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Lonegeal you got a cute dancing cat there...as for me, sadness is hitting.
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Old Nov 13, 2009, 10:48 PM
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Hi, Ariesmars!
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...as for me, sadness is hitting.
How many different "sadnesses" do you experience, or is it all the same sadness?
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Old Nov 14, 2009, 12:05 AM
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you
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Old Nov 14, 2009, 09:20 AM
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((((((ariesmars))))) Hang in there. Don't stay hit. Is it something particular?
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