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Old Nov 03, 2010, 10:03 PM
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I have been in and out of therapy. Hospitals. I put on this professional face, good mom. The. Thing is my husband is abusive, i love my job but high stress. And i feel like I'm nothing. I look around and I'm empty. And i cant anymore. He won't go to therapy, I'm always feeling like a looser and lost. And i dont have the strenght to fight anymore. I simply dont want to be here.i have three kids but i realize how much our relationship is screwing them up,along with just doing it all on my own and I'm exhausted. This way he'd have to step up. I am crap. What's the difference?

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Old Nov 04, 2010, 03:02 PM
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The difference is those 3 kids. They need you, and they need you healthy. I know it's hard. I really do, but you can do it!! If I can do it, anybody can do it! Abuse makes you feel like nothing, but trust me, you ARE something, and you are WORTH something!!! Actually, YOU ARE WORTH EVERYTHING. And, so are your kids!

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Old Nov 04, 2010, 03:33 PM
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hi tiff, you deserve and your children deserve a heathy atmosphere to live. do you go to therapy? it could help you sort out things and enable some direction for you. i'm sorry you feel so down right now. just know we are here and support you. glad u posted of how u're feeling right now. it doesn't fix it but at least you're getting your feelings out here.
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Old Nov 04, 2010, 03:42 PM
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for you!
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Old Nov 08, 2010, 07:48 PM
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Fear is keeping me trapped. I'm always afraid to fail and someone won't like or want to help me. I want my dad.like now.
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