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Mar 30, 2011, 04:36 AM
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Don't worry I am not suicidal,I know how the pain of losing someone that way never goes away and would not do that to my family. What I am talking about is just my life in general, I am at real risk of losing my husband, he is sick of how I am how I act and pretty much everything I do. What I don't is as much a problem as what I do.because I work nights I sleep most of the day,the family had Pizza there was none left for me when I got up but my husband had saved money for me to buy sandwhich. I felt left out hurt and like I was being shown what these feelings feel like, he felt like my "temper tantrum" just showed that I am selfish, self centered and don't appreciate what I have, I don't "give " him what he needs without him having to "pay" for it later sometimes that is true . I am trying to improve all this, and waiting impatiently for my evaluation and subsequent treatment with a counselor, just hope he doesn't give up on me before I have a chance to get better.
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Mar 30, 2011, 07:03 AM
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Hey there, how much have you talked about this to your husband? Both your feelings, and how he feels about what you're going through? It sounds like both of you need to come together and work to make the relationship hold together right now, I'm glad you're looking for treatment because that's also an important step.
Hoping everything works out
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Mar 30, 2011, 07:43 AM
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He has tried he is just sick of it he works almost 20 hours aday between his business and the kids I really am not exagerating. He is a work aholic hates excuses and people using illnesses as a crutch as he does have a lot of physical problems and does not let them slow him down, I don't seem to be able to accomplish this. We don't talk much anymore I have "programed" him so that he won't talk to me cause he never knows what will set me off. I have been trying to annalize exactly what my problems are so I can succeed in counseling the first block will be follow through as I suck at that badly.
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Mar 30, 2011, 06:03 PM
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Well hubby summed it up today he said i am not even his friend,so what the **** is the point anyway.I have hurt him so much he is barely tolerating me,i see my future and it is looking like a cardboard box next to a building downtown somewere.
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