Being Pushed Beyond My Limits!

My bf is putting so many demands on me right now and I feel like nobody understands! My bf wants me to get my license, move, go to a party that I don't think I can go to...all this at once! I just want to go away! I want to cut so badly because I cannot handle all of this pressure!

Shouldn't I do what is good for me? And by who's standards, mine or everybody else's? Has anyone ever been abused so badly that you can't bear to be around children? I was, and there's gonna be numerous children at this party this weekend. This is just terrifying me! I don't know anymore what to do!

Um. I think you know what I'm going to say...

Lex I am sorry he is being a creep and sorry to read this...I will be honest and say I have never read much GOOD about this guy...maybe you oughta move away from him he sounds unreasonable and selfish..you do not deserve this...Do not go where you know you will be uncomfortable...From all you have posted on this dude he sounds toxic sorry to be blunt but that is all I have read about him

hugs

(((lexi))) We've already talked about you keeping this person as a b/f. It sounds like he really doesn't understand you...

You know what is in your best interest. You can give yourself permission to say, "NO." That can be "NO!" "No thank you." "Are you out of your ever lovin' mind NO?"

There's no problem with saying that you aren't going to do this or that. That's what we waited to become adults for: making our own decisions.
Please take care of yourself.

Lexy, hon, he ain't gonna change. Not for you, not for me, not for nobody. How many times you gonna get pushed beyond yer limits before you decide to take care of yourself??? Being single for a while not only isn't a curse, it can be a relief......

I think the title of your post says it all- you are being pushed BEYOND your limits. there is no reason that will justify that. it's not okay hun. those are decisions that you are going to have to make, and it can be great to have someone cheering you on but for one, he isn't "cheering" and two, it's all within you personal limits... the party for ex., if you're not comfortable going you shouldn't have to. he can't make you, you have to stand up for yourself though and say NO. you have to do what is in your best interests, not what he thinks is in your best interest or what would make him or someone else happy.. the fact is, even if you were to go along and do all of those things, don't you think he'd come up w/ something else to "fix" tomorrow? he's not being supportive at all. pls don't cut.... this isn't your fault in any way..