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Old Jun 09, 2012, 08:51 AM
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I thought I was doing better.... but I'm feeling like an absolute piece of crap, unwanted, ignored, deserving to be ignored, deserving to be blamed for things I didn't do and would never do..
(note. not about anyone on pc.)

Maybe its time the fuzzybear wasn't here.

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Old Jun 09, 2012, 09:09 AM
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I thought I was doing better.... but I'm feeling like an absolute piece of crap, unwanted, ignored, deserving to be ignored, deserving to be blamed for things I didn't do and would never do..
(note. not about anyone on pc.)

Maybe its time the fuzzybear wasn't here.

Oh, Fuzzy. You deserve to be treated kindly. Just because people are jerks doesn't mean you have to accept what they say and do as truth. Tell 'em to knock it off!
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 09:25 AM
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Time and experience have taught me that, as unnatural as it seems, some of the most wonderful people are tormented by feelings of self-hate.

If I had more psychological energy, I would rage against the kernel of fierce, snarling self-judgment inside you. All I can do is stand with your many PC friends in affirming you.
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 09:28 AM
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Sounds like others are projecting things onto you. Let it go over your head, whoosh! There it goes!!
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 10:33 AM
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((((((Fuzzybear))))))!

Of course, you need to stay here. As you have said so kindly in reply to one of my recent posts, I would miss you if you weren't around any longer. So will many others.
It's terrible not to feel valued and I struggle with it, too.

Accept my hugs and best wishes, Fuzzy! I hope you'll feel better soon!
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 10:58 AM
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You are a W0NDERFUL person and deserve to be treated accordingly! I would miss your furry presence SO much if you were no longer around!
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 12:02 PM
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 02:29 PM
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(((((((Fuzzy))))))) YOu are very much wanted & deserve to be here!!
YOur hearts & hugs you give us all mean so much. YOu always brighten my day. PLease don't let others get you down, they don't know you like we do.
Our Fuzzybear is very special.
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 11:19 PM
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No one deserve to be ignore. I know it's hard, but don't let the feeling get you.
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Old Jun 09, 2012, 11:32 PM
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Please give this note to that self-judgment Rohag cited:
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... ~* You have value *~* You are loved *~* You deserve love *~

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Old Jun 10, 2012, 04:37 PM
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You are wanted> you're wanted here. So many wonderful people caring about the wonderful you will miss you if you go.

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Old Jun 19, 2012, 06:05 AM
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No! At a time like this it's when you should especially be here- you sound like you need some support! You sound like you're suffering from severe depression. I was like that before I got on medication- all those negative thoughts can drive a person crazy. Sticking it out alone often doesn't help. I kept thinking I was ok until I wasn't. Then I finally sought help. I hope you at least think of talking to someone. I hard there are places you can go and talk to therapists for free- Doc. John has an old post linking to a discount code for insurance or something (I forget exactly at the moment). Sending you much and many .
Feel better, and I hope to see you on here again soon!
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I don't think that we've ever talked. But i have seen a lot of your uplifting and positive post. Your such a wonderful person. Im sorry that your hurting now. I just hope u can find that positive place you were at. People are cruel, some people are just so wraped up in their own life that they don't see or notice that there hurting people around them. I hope you all the best. Blessings
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 12:02 AM
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i know how u feel and i feel the same way every day hang in there and good luck
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 03:51 AM
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I thought I was doing better.... but I'm feeling like an absolute piece of crap, unwanted, ignored, deserving to be ignored, deserving to be blamed for things I didn't do and would never do..
(note. not about anyone on pc.)

Maybe its time the fuzzybear wasn't here.

fuzzy

Just saw your post a bit late, but wanted to say that it's sad that you are feeling those feelings & that people around you are making you feel that way......people can make us feel like an absolute piece of crap, & can make us feel unwanted & ignored..........

But we have to learn not to turn those feelings around on ourselves......because we are the ones that take those emotions & then tell ourselves we deserve to be ignored & deserve to be blamed.....those are the feelings we need to control because then come from within us....not from the outside & they are past voices coming back to haunt us.....definitely NOT REALITY. No one deserves to be ignored & no one deserves to be blamed even when people make us feel like crap, & make us feel unwanted & ignored.

Acknowledge the feelings & emotions that come from outside of you & recognize & control the thoughts of those feelings & emotions that are being created from within.
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Old Jun 20, 2012, 05:24 AM
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Fuzzybear -- I'm a bit late too, but we would ALL miss you if you weren't here. It wouldn't be the same place.

Please don't go. Stay for us, please?? WE Need you here! Hugs, Lee
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