sick

my "t" said she never liked me.
I am sickened, beyond belief.
Just leave me alone.

((((((Fuzzy))))))

Your t needs to be sacked saying that You're lovely ignore the stupid bi***

Wow, that's terrible. I'm so sorry.

Just wow! A T shouldn't be sharing whether she likes you or not, her job is to support you and help you grow. Definitely not a good T to be saying something like that.

*Furrypaws*

I feel sick at this...

Dear ((((((( Furry Paws! )))))))

(((((Fuzzybear!)))))

I don't understand why a therapist would come out with such a thing!
I completely agree with Pegasus' comment on what a therapist should be saying or not.

Can you change therapists? I do hope you have an option (normally you do) to do so and I would advise you to do so asap.

I'm very sorry this is happening to you, Fuzzy!

That is awful Fuzzy. Seems even unethical. I agree with the other posters. I hope you can find a new T.

Was your T trying to get you to react to her or something? T's don't usually say anything like that under any circumstances......wondering if you were holding in emotions & she was trying to get you to express some emotion & chose a horrible way to try?

That's the only semi-rational thinking (& it's not really rational in my mind) I could possibly come up with to figure out where in the world that would even come from.

No way should a T even stay with a patient if they know that feeling exists.......it would be unethical in the first place.......so I'm thinking there was really something more behind what your T said that it being the truth about her feelings.......it's just NOT LOGICAL.....especially with what a wonderfully nice person you are.

((Fuzzybear)) - this is very mean thing for a T to say. How can a patient trust a doctor if they don't feel cared for. Can't expect a person who doesn't like you, to care for you. That makes her look very unprofessional. Others don't determine who you are. I understand this is very upsetting for you.

WORDLESS! Sorry for your pain. Now go get yourself a new therapist. Don't let her failings impede your recovery!!! Feel better! BIG HUG...

((((((fuzzybear)))))))

That is just SO unprofessional and mean-spirited ~ I don't know what to say.

No one deserves to be treated that way by their T. Never!

Is there any way that you misinterpreted what she was saying to you? Like, she was being a smart-alec?? Not that being a smart-alec is okay, it isn't, but it's certainly better than being unethical! If you two have been working together for a long time, and normally have a good relationship, I'd recommend e-mailing the T your interpretation of what she said and how that makes you feel. Be clear and honest!

If you haven't been seeing this T for very long, or don't have the greatest relationship to begin with, I'd recommend looking for a new T. Very gentle hugs to you and best wishes. You take care!

(((((((Fuzzy))))))) I am so sorry this happened to you. Find a new T.
No one should say this to another person, in any setting, but in a professional setting is unacceptable & should be reported, (I know easier said than done).
Don't be hard on yourself. You deserve a good caring T just as much as the next person. Keep trying, there are good ones out there.

(((gentle hugs))) to you my friend.

((((SweetieFuzzy)))) That is absolutely unprofessional, unethical, and unacceptable. Please understand, what your T said to you has nothing to do with you, but clearly reveals who she is. If that was the case, then she should have been professional, responsible, and honest with you from the very beginning, and referred you to another therapist immediately instead of deceiving you. Every state has a board or agency that you can contact to report such misconduct - you can even do it online.

I hope you're feeling better and find a better T soon! lynn09