why does everyone hate me

why does everyone hate me? I didnt hurt nobody.

(((ariesmars))) - I'm sorry you're feeling so sad and that everyone hates you. Don't know if you're talking about here or IRL? If its here, its better to have a few good friends than lots who you can't reach out to. I believe you didn't hurt anyone and I don't hate you.

Oh ariesmars.......no one here hates you! Your PC friends love you; you're one of my favorite members!! If this is about people IRL, I feel sorry for them. They can't know you like we do. You would never hurt anybody or anything! You're a very special person and it hurts to see you suffering. Hold on tight and listen to your friends. We care very much, ariesmars. Hugs and ........grey

Everyone doesn't hate you. What makes you think that?

Bless your heart. Why do you think everyone hates you? I certainly don't hate you! I'd like to be your friend, if you'd let me.

Would you talk to us some more about it? We'd like to listen to what you have to say. Hugs, Lee

I don't hate you. Ok, I don't know you, but I just don't think someone that can show that kind of emotion is a person to be hated, nor hurt someone else.

Everyone doesn't hate you depression can make us feel that way.

If everyone hated you that means every single person in existence hates you, and we don't hate you here. Negativity from depression can really mess with us.

Hang in there, it's going to be okay.

Sending hugs, we care about you!

((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))

I realize that people in real life, even some people who are supposed to care about you, are sending you negative messages. You've endured negative messages for so many years that your question, "Why does everyone hate me?" is understandable on that background. You are a special, unique person. Only a few have been able to see your star. I'm glad to be one of them.

Depression makes you feel like everyone around you hate you, I have the same feeling too, sometimes I can't distinguish whether it is from my depression or they really do hate me, I feel for you

today, i repaired my dads aircompressor. put an adapter on it so i can use my plane batteries. its works 100% better than the lead-acid 12v that was in it. HOWEVER...it was not good enough, dad wants the orginal battery (long been out of date) and he is too #$#$ lazy to carry the extra battery (half the weight of orginal) and connect it with the plug i soldered on it. what a lazy A##, he has gotton to be. fussy when he gets a new battery how can he use it since i put the connector on it...uhhhh...wire cutters, unsolder the connector. does this man even think anymore...i mean im the person that has the disability, not him! Never a thank you, or good job, your smart....NOTHING, what i get is....how am i gonna use it now, why the ^%$ did you do that, you never help out around the house, you owe me more money....so clearly NOBODY in real life likes me. everyone treats me the same way.

If a person asks you to fix something, it usually means to get it working again as it was. If you know of a better improvement, but that is not what the person wanted, they will not be pleased with it, even if it is better than before. I have learned that in technical support services. If an item they need replaced is no longer available, they have to have that explained to them. They have to then make the choice of what they want done to it. Always go by what THEY want you to do even if you know that something else is better. That will save you a lot of agony and conflicts in the end. Lots of hugs.

i'm sure not everyone hates you.

it's just your depression telling you that.

Big HUGS for you aries!! People in real life can be irritated snots, and i have been there and done that. I know how you feeling aries!

*On the side note: Nobody hates you..

((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))

Your father has "issues"of his own, and one result of those issues it that he can't appreciate you. Something clouds his eyes such that he cannot see your intelligence and skill.

Maybe there's a bit of the "designated patient" dynamic at work here. You're the official disabled member of the family, and so he uses that to ignore his own shortcomings.

Sad...

ariesmars
How could I possible hate you when you send off nothing but good vibes. I have read some of your post to others and appreciate how supportive you are. Count me in as a friend

dead or alive...it dont even matter anymore.

((((((( Ariesmars! )))))))
You matter. You matter to us.

Ariesmars, i certainly feel badly that you feel hated. That feeling is so painful. i hope you feel reassured that everyone does not hate you after reading all of these posts. We have not met and i am positive i do not hate you. (Sending you a beautiful weed...they get a bad rap because of the way they grow, but many are quite lovely....perhaps you too are a beautiful weed.) i bet you did not know the Christmas plant called Poinsettia (spelling?) is a weed. So continue to bloom here at PC.

The people who hate you are jerks. You're delightful.

why would anyone truly like me? what do i have to offer? what good am I?

Ariesmars, the questions you ask arise not only from a state of depression, but also from a state of oppression.

It's hard not to despair when you're fighting both those monsters, monsters who prevent you from seeing the affection and goodwill of your real friends.

*big hugs for you* I know what you are going through and it's tough at times. I'm starting to like you in a friendship way as well everyone on board here in this site.

I understand completely. You aren't hated, though. Hate is a very strong word. I don't think most of us normal folks are capable of hating. It is a nasty thing. I dislike the way people are sometimes, I might even hate the way they act on occasion like a current co-worker, but I never hate the person. I think most of us are like that.

Your Dad had no reason to act like that, but it doesn't mean he hates you. I am sure he loves you, he may just have a hard time showing it. That is another problem in this world, people are afraid for whatever reason to show their love or true feelings. I know that is hard to accept in our dark times of needs, but it is a fact of life.

You seem like a great person, going through rough timee. As you can see, everyone here loves you and I know people in real life do as well .

((((((((((((((( ariesmars )))))))))))))))