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So I want to elaborate on what I wrote before. This time in detail. I need some advice because I don’t know what to do anymore. I have a lot of problems I have and eating disorders, I self mutilate, I have severe depression, anxiety issues, OCD, and really bad self esteem. I have been to a doctor before but I feel like I can’t trust her because she will tell my parents and I do not want to get put away. My parents always put me down and so do my friends. I mean why do they put me down… Maybe it is all true. I can’t do anything right. I am just really sacred and I feel so alone. Nothing feels right anymore. I just keep thinking of everything. I am so tired of thinking. What should I do? Some help, please.
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I am so SORRY!! that your family has hurt you so.... I know of this pain first hand and with that knowledge I feel for you. I also know that it is hard to TRUST someone if you feel they are going to be telling another what you have said - but all in all you must talk with your counselor if she is to HELP YOU....
Maybe try asking her what the patient to doctor privacy is when you are a minor - maybe she does not have to tell your parents everything you say. I know when I took my son to see a therapist for his anger after his sister passed away.... she did not inform me of everything that they talked about.... some matters were kept between the two of them, but she did help us all as a Family. ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) LoVe, Rhapsody - ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Hi xrainstormx,
Minors don't get privacy rights? I didn't know that. I would think they would unless one of the parents are abusing them and they would need to discuss those issues with them. Is there a friend you can talk to? Another counsler you could go to that may not be a "counsler" but someone who'll listen-someone like a teacher or an aunt, cousin, ect...? How are your parents and friends putting you down? Could you be hearing what you think they mean and not what they are actually saying? A low self esteem can make you think people are being mean to you but they aren't. Or maybe they were just kidding and being playful not realizing how sensitive you are feeling. Please, stay safe. Hugs!!! |
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My friends use me for my money. I don't know why I still hang out with them but I do. I am stupid. My parents don't get along with everyone in my family and I don't get along with my parents, so there is no one. You have to pay money to go see someone, I have a doctor but she doesn't help. I would like to switch doctors but my parents would yell at me because of insurance and things. I wish my parnents were kidding around or playing but they are not. I am 18 and i get yelled at it people call the house phone more than once. They have called me stupid. There is other things to but I perfer not to say.
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Oh, I'm sorry. I was hoping your parents and friends being intentionally mean to you wasn't the case.
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