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Old Apr 14, 2013, 02:47 PM
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please someone help me I need to talk to someone im on the verge of giving up and breaking down ,everything is a mess and ive just tried to go on this online teen support chat for suicide and they were all ganging up on me saying I was an attention seeker because I asked if I could talk to someone about how to help with selfharm urges and they said that I don't have a reason to selfharm and they asked me and I told them I was raped and things and they told me it was my fault then I was getting private messages off people asking me to give them pictures and someone wrote in the chat 'I wished I was raped' and then they were being nasty still I just needed someone to talk to and they have made me feel a whole lot worse ,I don't know what im supposed to do anymore I feel like everyone is against me because people keep being horrible and telling me to go kill myself and things like that I hate myself I cant think straight my heads a mess and I want to do something serious to myself
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 02:57 PM
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I would stay away from the chat site you don't need those kind of people bullying you......Do you have a friend that you can talk to?....I know these feelings only too well...Have you tried distracting?
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 03:05 PM
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I have tried distractions yes and they don't seem to be working and my friends don't want to no me anymore ive got no one im not worth being here
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 03:10 PM
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I can imagine how alone you must feel with these feelings of wanting to hurt yourself. It must have been devistating to reach out for help only to be attacked by other chatters.
I hope you realize that their behavior is not a reflection of you and in fact has nothing to do with you.
I'm wandering what support you have for this.
Friends you can talk to?
Family to talk to?
Counsellor who can listen and give support?

Also I am wondering what have you been doing to get yourself through this so far? What things have helped to distract you in the darkest moments?

Please keep posting and know that you are not alone.
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 04:59 PM
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...they said that I don't have a reason to selfharm...
That's definitely a red flag they are not equipped to support you properly. Try calling Samaritans UK/ROI.

Please keep posting, Girl-Interrupted.
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 06:02 PM
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It was probably a bunch of trolls. Some people get their thrills messing with people on the Internet because they can't do it in real life. Try imalive.com if you can, they are trained volunteers. And post here. Only go into moderated chat rooms.
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 06:08 PM
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please someone help me I need to talk to someone im on the verge of giving up and breaking down ,everything is a mess and ive just tried to go on this online teen support chat for suicide and they were all ganging up on me saying I was an attention seeker because I asked if I could talk to someone about how to help with selfharm urges and they said that I don't have a reason to selfharm and they asked me and I told them I was raped and things and they told me it was my fault then I was getting private messages off people asking me to give them pictures and someone wrote in the chat 'I wished I was raped' and then they were being nasty still I just needed someone to talk to and they have made me feel a whole lot worse ,I don't know what im supposed to do anymore I feel like everyone is against me because people keep being horrible and telling me to go kill myself and things like that I hate myself I cant think straight my heads a mess and I want to do something serious to myself
May I offer a HUG ? Breathe deeply. Can you think of something positive ? Take good care of your self.
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 06:15 PM
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thanks...
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 06:23 PM
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im so done ,,,,im hated ,,,,cant think wahts going on
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 06:46 PM
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I am so sorry those girls did that to you. It was unfair and TOTALLY wrong. They are obviously trolls and it has zero reflection on you and just nothing to do with you whatsoever. Try not to take to heart what they said to you. I know it sounds like an impossible request but please try.

I am sorry you are feeling to horribly terrible right now. But try and hang in there. There will be better days ahead, you just haven't seen them yet.

Can you talk to your parents at all? Do you see a therapist or a school counselor? They would be people who you could start to talk to about some of your feelings to start to get some help. You don't have to feel this way forever. There are therapies that can help you.

Talking about the things that have happened to you will be very helpful for you. I know because the same things have happened to me and being in therapy has helped so much. Just getting it out there and learning how to heal...

Please keep posting here so we can know how you are doing. I am worried about you.

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Old Apr 14, 2013, 10:29 PM
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First of all which teen site is this??
I'll report this behavior to the admin
that's part of their job to put a stop to stuff
like this which is site abuse.
I'll give them my 2 cents! Some teens
not all (not you) they infuriate me.
I have a lot of contempt for the majority of them.
No morals, no conscience and most disturbing?
lacking in any kind of morals....OMG It scares me
that this is a new generation.
I would suggest to stop using online teen chat rooms.
Instead call a teen support hotline there on Google go look them up.
And Boystown.org
The Boystown which helps girls too has a 24/7 hotline you can call up anytime.
There motto is that they can handles anything & at anytime.
Also try to see if there are some local teen hotlines and just open up I know
your scared but you can't keep something like this to yourself.
You will need to help yourself on the road to recovery.
And most important don't ever let anyone talk to you in a disrespectful
manner. Ever.
You have self respect so you must stand up for your rights.
If you want keep me posted on how your doing.
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Old Apr 14, 2013, 11:14 PM
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:25 AM
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 10:59 AM
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Are you ok?
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:03 AM
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Oh geez. Don't OD. People here care about you.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:29 AM
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Are you OK? What happened? Let us know if you are ok?????
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:51 AM
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I'm not ok but it don't matter
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:52 AM
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I don't deserve support anymore
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:55 AM
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A wise old man told me or purpose in life is to 'do good' and be creative. Do good to yourself. Especially don't lie to yourself .
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 11:59 AM
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The devil is a liar. The devil wants you to destroy yourself.
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 12:01 PM
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The truth might not make sense sometimes but that's how people and all good things grow
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 12:08 PM
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When you feel better you could set some goals. Like getting outside for a walk. Find a safe place you can go and be with some people so your not alone. I struggle with that myself
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 12:34 PM
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Any thoughts of self harm is considered a serious medical emergency. Can you call 911?
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 12:35 PM
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Im scared
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Old Apr 15, 2013, 12:41 PM
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I know. That's why I never do.
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