What's the use

Sabrina, you have alway responded to my posts it isn't you that has offended me
Love
Angie

Tanya, your tops with me it isn't you either
Love
Angie

Yes, it's natural tendency for members here to worry that they caused a problem. IMO we should PM the member to make sure, but not necessarily ask on the thread... as the list narrows, others might worry more?

((((nothemama8))) I hope you are feeling better by hearing support from so many of your friends here

Heck I'm feelin soooooooo much better I answered a post from the snot hahahaha

Today, has turned out to be one of those days, I care for people, reply with support, and they overlook my replies but yet answer others as if mine were invisible, what's up with that? Is it becoming "selective support and selective respect" ?
I really understand your post and I made a reply the other day, today, was a little harder to feel like I did then.
Now, I'm annoyed,and feel, "why bother replying to anything, if the person(s) act if you aren't here but yet will reply to a reply that came way after I made the effort.
No one has to kiss one's feet, but it is nice if they have the decency to acknowledge those that showed their concern/support.
I guess my "giving damn is soon to be busted".
I definately understand your post.
Take care, dear lady.

((( Everyone )))

I'm feeling bad. I don't always answer every post or remember who posted to me etc.

There are some Forums I don't even visit, or I might be pressed for time and just skim.

If I made anyone here feel bad I'm sorry. I didn't do it intentionally.

I understand also.....I let the feeling of rejection keep me from posting and know how it makes me feel and would never intentionally hurt anybody.

take care everybody......

Lori

I find days where I can reply to a lot of threads and days I just don't have the time. I worry also about missing someone or whether i forgot to answer a question. I think we all have to agree that this is a huge site. Its wonderful but I could be here all day and get nothing else done. I hope I haven't hurt anyones feelings because it wasn't intentional if I did. I too try to skimm quickly and often while I haven't replied I am thinking of people and how they are doing.

I have decide to let this person know through pm how hurt they have made me feel, hopefully the person won't do this to another

thats a good idea, it will give the person in question a chance to explain themselves, plus, everyone who is worrying that it may be them will be happier to know that it isnt because they havent recieved the pm.

well done for facing up to the issue and not letting it get worse. its always best to deal with things as and when they arise, and not to let them fester.

hope it gets better.

simon

I understand completely. I've just quit posting all together but read on occasion so I don't leave her feeling more worthless then when I came.

I think that was a good decision--to communicate directly with the person. I didn't realize that this person was responding to everyone else & seemed to be deliberately ignoring you. I have no idea why anyone would do that, especially to you! But hope the issue gets resolved & you can post next time in a happier mood, cuz a lot of people care for you, as you can see. I'm only one of many.--Suzy

OMG , PETUNIA
We can't believe we overlooked such a sweet smelling purple posy, hoping you can forgive me, we must be having a brain-fart or something, thank you for replying twice to us, you dearheart are one of the most responsive posys here, no it's not you, I guess when ppl have good paying jobs they forget how others supported them when they needed support

I guess I'll have to put my blinking self-portrait back up so you can see my fat cheeks.

ya sweet cheeks, please forgive me, we didn't mean to leave you out, you've been sooooooooo supportive and look at all the snails you do, that shows Petunias have hearts

To rest everyone fears, it is no one we talk to regularly, everyone replying to this thread has been supportive and are all safe, I have pmed the person and hope to hear from them tonight

Hi, have not been in this forum for a while. I saw your post just now and just want you to know I understand. I think about your generosity and kindness when I think of you. Sort of salt of the earth and would do for anyone anything, even if it left you with out a coat in the winter. You are loved.

ww your sooooooooo sweet, you can cuddle in my new winter coat this year anytime with me

have received an answer and everything is okie dokie, she just got over whelmed with new job we made up, Peace is back in Groholville once again
Angie

Great outcome. I'm so glad you PMed her directly or you would still be feeling wounded. Now, it's time for some of others (me!) to talk directly to someone...my husband...don't know when I'll have the strength to do it. Went to meds doc today. Increased Lamictal added Trazadone for sleep & said I need to get back into therapy & he needs to go to someone (different) too. We'll see whether I can broach that subject.--Suzy