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Old Oct 10, 2006, 01:09 AM
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I am feeling so sad and tired... I cant get enough sleep it seems. This week has been kinda rough with my brother in laws surgery , traveling , worrying and all that. But I am feeling almost lethargic at times. My diet is balanced. Although I am not eating as much as I was before everything this week. And I havent been eating as much as I used to period. So I dont think that has anything to do with how I am feeling. The only thing I can think of is that the SAD is setting in . Blah....
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Old Oct 10, 2006, 01:16 AM
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tryin2bme i completely understand that feeling i am very blah right now i have no feelings whatsoever at this point where as last week i could have bawled at the drop of a hat you have alot on your plate right now take it easy one day at a time and do something that makes you happy
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 11:06 AM
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Thanks Arod for your response, I appreciate it. I am feeling so lost right now.. I feel like everything I am attempting to do is not truely something I want to do . Like its the old me trying to people please. That is making me feel more down too. I dont want to revert to that people pleasing person.. but yet the me that wants to help is still needing to do so. Ugh...
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 11:35 AM
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((((tryin2bme)))))

I know what you mean about always trying to please people. But the more that I myself try and please people, or pretend that i'm something i'm not ... the worse i have felt. So maybe just try doing little things for yourself at first. Watch a favourite movie, read your favourite book, listen to your kind of music .. whatever it is, do something for you. Because no matter what, no one can please everyone .. and they just end up hurting themselves when they can't make everyone happy. I'm sorry you are feeling so blah ..,. and i hope that you can find what you are looking for.
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 08:07 PM
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tryintobe boy do i understand that people pleasing i always have to think about what others think it really gets in my way but you know when i don't pay attention to others (which is not often usually done to people i don't like so its easier)
i feel so much better right now though i am a little lost myself not sure where i fit in you know i talk to a close friend but i feel like i am bothering her you know she is busy and has her own life but anyway
hope your doin a little better and each day gets better for you
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Old Oct 11, 2006, 09:41 PM
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Bethy, please yourself, only do what you feel safe doing and tell them to kiss off on the rest
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