my cat died

One of our cats died last night. And I can't stop crying about it. We've lost other cats b4, but for some reason, this time hit me really hard. It was my sister's cat before we had, and when we got her (a little over 2 years ago) she was already about 15 years old. I'm thinking that mite be part of it.

Plus, the year we got her was a ruff year for us. I lost a lot of weight tha yeart, in fact it was too much too fast. I was going thru a lot of stuff with my mom that year (long story). That was the last year I actually had a job, and I filed disability that year also. (I joined PC that year, too-but that was a good thing.) It might not sound like much, but I was having a real hard time that year, and well basically, I kind o didn't really want to take in the cat. But I couldn't see just letting her go to the pound either--which was the only other choice! And then when she died last night, I guess a part of me felt like it was finally ok to cry.

So sorry to hear that you are hurting. The loss of a loved pet can be very hard. Crying is healthy. Allow yourself time to grieve. Hang in there. You will get through this

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so sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss. I understand exactly what you are going through. I lost my 17-19 yr old cat two weeks ago today at the same time I am writing this. It was harder than my other cat. I feel a mixture of sorrow and guilt. I have not picked up her water bowl yet. I have put together all the things to give away but I haven't been able to do that. I am very sorry for your loss.

Thank you for your post...We lost our only dog a few months back...
The only thing that has truly helped me through, besides my complete belief that her spirit went on, is a dove. As she got older, and before she began to show signs of an enlarged heart (followed by a collapsed lung and infection that meds could not cure), she began to allow a dove to enter the carport and eat from her food bowl...salmon kibble....I was kinda amazed...I called it 'your birdie'...she really loved sharing her food with it...

I still have about 1/3 bag left...when she died, there was almost a full bag...I have been feeding the bird since losing the dog, as the bird kept coming around... tossing some out to it now and then...feeding it less often now, so that it goes back to foraging for its own food.

Being able to feed the bird has helped...Before she became obviously ill, she basically adopted a dove. geez....she was such a sweet dog...a German Sheppard that basically adopted a dove...I sure miss her. Have to wonder if she went on to be a bird...

We just decorated our tree today...I collect bird ornaments, and the only non-bird ornament on the tree besides a star? ONE cat... I forgot to hang it...seriously...going out to the carport right now to both feed the bird and get the cat ornament...will hang it in honor of your dear kitty...another angel~

My regrets for the loss of your friend. Thank you for giving her a home.

The cruelest of all things (to me) seems to be death. VERY sorry for your loss. I hope the nice memories help a little. And knowing that someday God will reunite you.

It is definitely okay to cry over a loved pet. I have cried over the loss of many a loved companion. Each one was unique and I will never forget a one of them. Let yourself grieve, it's okay.

Sorry for your loss. My cat Serena died unexpectedly in 2009. She was my shadow and her death really hit me hard. For weeks after, the smallest reminder of her would have me weeping.

Losing a pet is always hard but to lose one so unexpectedly seems harder. I know it was for me. Let yourself cry. It is all part of the grieving process.

When our guinea pig died this weekend my daughter was telling our chihuhua about what happened. And she said she went over the rainbow bridge and will be waiting there for her. Here is the poem just in case you haven't seen it. I think it is beautiful and has helped me grieve when I have lost pets.

The Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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I am so sorry to abt your loss. I never thought 'pet' was the right word for these beloved friends of ours. They are so much more.

I am sorry that your cat has passed away. Personally speaking I talk to my cat all the time and I donk know what I would do if she was not around. I know what people say "your mad talking to a cat" but she always is so gentle and warm i cannot but think of her as a person. Its good that you are expressing your grief and I hope that you get consolation in the fac that she was a good age and that you loved her very much. Take care of yourself.

I know your heart is aching . The loss is almost unbearable. I send love and many many.......... hugss to yu and those who knew your pet.
Love Elbie

I am so sorry for your loss.I have 2 cats. Its okay to cry.

thanx everyone for your warm replies; even tho at first I had heard time accepting her, I did grow to love her very much. About 2 days before she died, we all knew she was on her last leg, so one of my sisters (not the one who had her b4) came over to see how she was doing. Oreo started purring real loudly at the sight of her, and even tried to "talk" to her a little bit. She started walking over to my sis, but kind of pooped out. But she still continued to "talk" to her and purr, letting my sis know that she was happy to see her.

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Sorry to hear that- Fifteen years is old for a cat. At least you gave your cat a loving home. When my kitty soul mate died, I cried all the time for a few months, even out in public. She was the best cat ever. She was so sweet and loving. She'd snuggle with me all the time. She was so cute and smart too. I loved her more than any other cat I've ever had. Loosing a cat is like loosing a person IMHO. Cry as much as you need to.

Im so sorry about your loss its like losing one of your children. But he/she had a good home with lots of love. Try to hang on to the good memorys hugs

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I'm very sorry to hear about your cat, Losing a pet is very hard on us

Thanks Mittens. Yeah, it is like loosing a child! I will always miss her!