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Apr 04, 2007, 03:43 PM
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Bad and everything about myself. Nothing seems to be going right anymore, I annoy my own boyfriend, I can't remembe things, I have a 61% in English, I mess up, and I'm just a bad person and no one seems to like me anymore.
I just really hate myself 
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Apr 04, 2007, 04:59 PM
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Apr 04, 2007, 05:30 PM
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((((((((((((littlemissjess)))))))))))))))))
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Apr 04, 2007, 05:44 PM
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messing up and being bad are not connected.
scoring poorly and being bad are not congruent. annoying your boyfriend is not making everyone hate you and not being able to remember things also has nothing to do with being bad. Now that you're feeling bad about yourself, I'm sorry you feel that way. If you are really doing bad things, then there's something to do to change this correct feeling. If you feel bad because you are having a hard time right now, then it's helpful to realize that who you are, what you are and are trying to be has nothing to do with things that happen along the way. (((hugs))) feel better.
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Apr 04, 2007, 06:39 PM
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I have felt "bad" about myself most of my life. I am just now starting to turn things around and accept myself. The things that have helped me the most are therapy, journaling and support groups like this one. I have spent hours writing and talking about why I hate myself...now, I don't feel like I hate myself. I have done some bad things, but they don't make me a bad person. What is important is that I learn from them. What are the things you can do to raise your English score from a 61%? Maybe make a list and try to slowly improve...
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Apr 05, 2007, 02:46 AM
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I know how you feel. In grade 12 I was so depressed that I stopped showing up at school for a while. The day before our prom, My principal told me I couldn't go and that I wasn't graduating. I thought I would die! My dad was so mad. Shockingly enough I lived through it and sometimes it is soo hard to see that life does go on and get better and worse. Sometimes you just need to focus on yourself. What do you like to do? what makes you special? what are you good at? ask ppl close to you to help. once you can focus on these things, you can start to see that you might be a good person!! which i believe you are
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Apr 05, 2007, 06:40 PM
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That's not a really bad grade in English - it's still a pass.
You aren't bad, and I know how it feels to feel like that but I promise it's not true. Take care of yourself. (((((((((((littlemissjess))))))))))
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Apr 05, 2007, 06:44 PM
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you aren't bad. our brain tells us stuff and we believe it and then it creates a cycle.......turn that tape off and do something else for awhile. go for a walk or play music......talk to us here.......love,pat
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Apr 05, 2007, 06:50 PM
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Apr 06, 2007, 10:48 AM
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61% isn't a pass. in our school district we don't have D's so anything below a 70% is failing. I just hate myself. My parents will be so mad with my grades, and I feel that no one likes me. I have no friends at all, and that's pretty sad.
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Apr 06, 2007, 11:33 AM
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(((little))) I'm sorry you are so upset. I know how it is to feel like a failure... In school I flunked algebra...but it wasn't really my "fault"...it was because the previous math teacher didn't believe me when I told her I didn't know what I was doing
 so she advanced me anyway  Of course it affected me (Hey, I'm still talking about it!) But it wasn't the end of the world....I think your grades are indicative of how you feel inside  that's what is most important, to me. I hope you can get that across to your folks (((hugs)))
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Apr 06, 2007, 01:32 PM
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Wow, that sucks. I didn't know that was the case. Sorry.
((((((((((((littlemissjess)))))))))))))))))
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