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Old Dec 15, 2017, 03:08 PM
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I’m not an expert at finding a good therapist.. grrrrrrrrrrr
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Old Dec 15, 2017, 04:16 PM
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I’m not an expert at finding a good therapist.. grrrrrrrrrrr
neither am I...it is very difficult...most of them are not worth it...
I am thinking right now...that it takes money to get a good one..
it takes time...most of them are just formula stuff...just to get by..

fast moods...that's what they do

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Old Dec 16, 2017, 12:09 PM
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 09:30 AM
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how to find a good friend...
I am not good at that...I have always had trouble...
I relate best with people who have problems...I have problems...we can share..
I don't want to get too close...it scares me...I have been hurt so many times...I don't fit in too well with this world...I don't like it...I hate it
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 10:09 AM
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hey I have been thinking....
we are all GOOD people...
I am a good person...
I have screwed up many many times..
but I am a good person...
I have been hurt many many times by other persons..
but I am a good person...but I have screwed up...
I am trying to relate with others on an EQUAL basis...
I am trying not to put myself down just because I screwed up...
here I am...up goes my freak flag...and I have been taken down by DEPRESSION
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 10:28 AM
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No idea on finding a good therapist. My experience has been the last one almost destroyed me...literally...almost destroyed me. He actually wanted to. I don't recommend therapy now to anyone.
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 11:16 AM
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hey I have been thinking....
we are all GOOD people...
I am a good person...
I have screwed up many many times..
but I am a good person...
I have been hurt many many times by other persons..
but I am a good person...but I have screwed up...
I am trying to relate with others on an EQUAL basis...
I am trying not to put myself down just because I screwed up...
here I am...up goes my freak flag...and I have been taken down by DEPRESSION
I feel the same little turtle
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Old Dec 17, 2017, 11:21 AM
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No idea on finding a good therapist. My experience has been the last one almost destroyed me...literally...almost destroyed me. He actually wanted to. I don't recommend therapy now to anyone.
I’m sorry I have “engaged” with at least one therapist who was very abusive and did untold harm

He “couldn’t cure” me and became very destructive ..

I would have been more than happy if he had set a shorter time limit and treated me with the respect and dignity I deserved
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 02:51 AM
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whatever works for you...I think you need a good therapist that will talk with you about your life and how to reconnect with people...like a boyfriend
Everybody is not so fortunate to have a bf/gf. I talked to my pdoc, he stopped my anti-psychotic but he didn't give me any anti-depressant most probably coz he is worried for my aggression attacks returning with the start of an snri.
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 07:15 AM
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I found something really good....on the internet----
7 caring habits/7 deadly habits...I found on a google search..
I am going to try to work on this to improve my marriage...
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 07:33 AM
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I found something really good....on the internet----
7 caring habits/7 deadly habits...I found on a google search..
I am going to try to work on this to improve my marriage...
Yayyy!
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 07:48 AM
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this world is really screwed up.. more things/stuff...war/hate
how about the people...peace/love
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Old Dec 18, 2017, 07:54 AM
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heard something good sunday about people...
do you want to be right...or have a relationship
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Old Dec 19, 2017, 08:10 AM
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I am all alone now....closer to death...the world out there is very much a mystery to me...I don't like the way most people are behaving...very sad about what goes on...
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Old Dec 19, 2017, 08:36 AM
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each time I broke down...nobody believed how bad it was for me...they didn't believe me...they didn't know how close I was to ending it...in fact I was ready to leave my family and go homeless...that despair depression was killing me...it was terrible...I was at the end of the line...I can say it now...
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Old Dec 19, 2017, 12:38 PM
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each time I broke down...nobody believed how bad it was for me...they didn't believe me...they didn't know how close I was to ending it...in fact I was ready to leave my family and go homeless...that despair depression was killing me...it was terrible...I was at the end of the line...I can say it now...
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Old Dec 19, 2017, 02:06 PM
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I think it is awful that we have to die ....
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 08:11 AM
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I know that feeling of impending homelessness. I still find myself thinking as I see a sheltered space, “oh this would be a good spot if I ever get homeless.” To be honest- I don’t think I’d last long at all. This infatuation with homelessness was mostly when I was younger and feeling more desperate, thinking that less responsibility would bring relief from the doom of depression.
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 08:14 AM
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Everybody is not so fortunate to have a bf/gf. I talked to my pdoc, he stopped my anti-psychotic but he didn't give me any anti-depressant most probably coz he is worried for my aggression attacks returning with the start of an snri.
My aggression and hyperactivity returned just after one night of not taking risperidon. So I am taking it again to avoid breaking things. But I will be less happy. It's really sad. I feel sorry for myself.
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 08:23 AM
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My aggression and hyperactivity returned just after one night of not taking risperidon. So I am taking it again to avoid breaking things. But I will be less happy. It's really sad. I feel sorry for myself.


you are a human being...sweet desiree
please find a good therapist...
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 08:33 AM
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I am not feeling well...last night we got a xmas present of some chocolate candy...
I ate a lot of that candy....it was wonderful sweet....I was feeling so happy...and I had an extra glass of wine....so happy....

today I feel like s???.......I have a sugar problem...I had too much wine...
I AM A HUMAN BEING...
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 08:36 AM
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during these holidays I am going to pay close attention to the words that come out of my mouth...my mouth...not what others are saying...
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you are a human being...sweet desiree
please find a good therapist...
Believe me there is none here. I wish I lived close enough to you for you to be my therapist.
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 09:24 AM
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I understand all of what you have said. I am not a Doc, but I worked ER for a long time, and hated the way psy patients were treated. Before my total breakdown, I had so many depressive problems, but it seemed like no one noticed. When I had my breakdown no one called, visited, sent a letter, ect. during, or even after. I haven't kept in contact with anyone that I worked with, because the people who said they were my friends, I found out they weren't.
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Old Dec 20, 2017, 09:36 AM
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I understand all of what you have said. I am not a Doc, but I worked ER for a long time, and hated the way psy patients were treated. Before my total breakdown, I had so many depressive problems, but it seemed like no one noticed. When I had my breakdown no one called, visited, sent a letter, ect. during, or even after. I haven't kept in contact with anyone that I worked with, because the people who said they were my friends, I found out they weren't.
how bad was your breakdown katydid777
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