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May 18, 2016, 08:40 AM
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edited, I don't want to repeat those ugly words
 (Although naturally they circle around in my head endlessly  )
Possible trigger:
I have done the work, on my own, was "doing much better" then Back Came Depression and all the ****  
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May 18, 2016, 08:50 AM
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 Has she passed away already?
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Clara Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out. Vaclav Havel |
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May 18, 2016, 08:59 AM
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I wish I wasn't here
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May 18, 2016, 09:03 AM
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Clara Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out. Vaclav Havel |
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May 18, 2016, 09:05 AM
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Thanks Clara
 she has passed away ... Quote:
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May 18, 2016, 09:06 AM
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Oh, I did not understand. Thought she was still alive.
You are a good and supporting person, Fuzzy. Those comments were wrong and harmful. |
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May 18, 2016, 09:09 AM
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fuzzy...your mother is dead....I am new here...tell me something...I have a problem with my father...he is dead
fuzzy I don't know much psychology...I was just taught to give drugs...to bury all this stuff |
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May 18, 2016, 09:09 AM
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((((((Fuzzybear.)))))))
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May 18, 2016, 09:19 AM
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((((((( little turtle )))))))
I did see a psychologist who was (obviously ) supposed to, and paid to help. He was abusive . He was "nice" to begin with and cultivated the transference.... He was a Freudian He thought it would be "helpful" to voice any negative feeling he had, instead of dealing with it in his own therapy and supervision. He told me how he felt "callous" towards me after I'd told him one of the most hurtful, callous things my mother had done.   Quote:
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May 18, 2016, 09:22 AM
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sounds like the psychologist had a lot of problems fuzzy...I knew some psychiatrists that needed more help than their patients.... |
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May 18, 2016, 09:26 AM
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I think so too, grrrrrrrrrrrr
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May 18, 2016, 09:29 AM
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May 18, 2016, 09:34 AM
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You're a good person little turtle, much wiser than ...
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May 18, 2016, 09:37 AM
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May 18, 2016, 09:43 AM
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The father divorced her, it was very messy. She was "disappointed" in something about me when I was a baby
(I was a pretty baby and didn't scream all night, but then she drugged me up when I was 9 months old..) I was the only cub and the scapegoat for a lot of ****She threw me out as soon as she could The stepmother was a malignant narcissist, the mother and father weren't "healthy" either 
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May 18, 2016, 09:47 AM
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May 18, 2016, 09:49 AM
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Thanks little turtle
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May 18, 2016, 09:52 AM
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god I needed a father...he never loved me...people keep saying oh he was such a good father but he mistreated me for just being a normal boy.. |
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May 18, 2016, 10:03 AM
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(((((((( little turtle )))))))))
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May 18, 2016, 10:18 AM
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I was just thinking, this is how a support group "should" work, people listening to each other and caring, not jumping to self absorbed projective judgements like some sadly do IRL..
That mean T had wanted me to join a group he was running, I didn't want to, I think I made the right choice... On the other hand I might then have seen his "true colours" sooner and got out You deserved a father who loved and valued you, I feel bad for (little) little turtle (and little fuzzy too..) Quote:
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May 18, 2016, 12:22 PM
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My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
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#22
May 18, 2016, 01:10 PM
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I offer gentle safe hugs to all those as well
Thank you Wise Rohag for excelling in the art of support and genuine caring Quote:
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#23
May 18, 2016, 09:13 PM
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((((((((((little,little turtle )))))))))))
((((((((((little fuzzy)))))))))))) |
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