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Dec 31, 2007, 01:13 PM
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i have been asked lately , how im coping with everything that has happened this past year,....... and i couldnt answer them !!!
so i have tried to remember what has happened this year.......... i sold my bike, so daughter could go to spain.......... (didnt want to go after i sold bike) lost so more friends......... been arrested for abusing step daughter............ (case dropped as after police looked into it, found there was no case to answer to) had my family torn apart ..... tried to got myself put in hospital, as i felt unsafe .......... turned my youngest daughter into a angry hating machine............... no longer feel i can tell my own children off ................ feeling sick now for the past 4 days........ started the year with a famiy of 6 ................ ending it hardly even a family............. wife torn between her daughter and husband ................ kids torn between sister and dad .................... me shutting down ...................... so not a lot!!!!!!!!!!! dec lets hope the new year is better,................. then again it cant be mush worse now can it........
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Dec 31, 2007, 01:30 PM
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{{{therealme}}}
It's not all you; other people in the family are having stresses and making choices of how to respond too. Don't take on your daughters' choices, you're doing the best you can and it looks pretty good from here; trying to take care of yourself well and help others.
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Dec 31, 2007, 02:07 PM
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(((((((((((((( Dec ))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 03:56 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
therealme said: i have been asked lately , how im coping with everything that has happened this past year,....... and i couldnt answer them !!! so i have tried to remember what has happened this year.......... i sold my bike, so daughter could go to spain.......... (didnt want to go after i sold bike) lost so more friends......... been arrested for abusing step daughter............ (case dropped as after police looked into it, found there was no case to answer to) had my family torn apart ..... tried to got myself put in hospital, as i felt unsafe .......... turned my youngest daughter into a angry hating machine............... no longer feel i can tell my own children off ................ feeling sick now for the past 4 days........ started the year with a famiy of 6 ................ ending it hardly even a family............. wife torn between her daughter and husband ................ kids torn between sister and dad .................... me shutting down ...................... so not a lot!!!!!!!!!!! dec lets hope the new year is better,................. then again it cant be mush worse now can it........ </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- hummm you sold your bike so your daughter could maybe go to spain? That makes you a good DAd. LOL Gained more friends and A sister who is a sheep LOL Charges were dropped becuase you did not do it. And this gift was given to you before christmas.... You and your family have reliazed that daughter needs help and shes getting it You tryed to help yourself......... Chicken is a teenager, who will get better and you guys are getting her help...... Feeling sick maybe you think could be stress? Your wife adores you ...............that I know ask Kathy? You are still a family of 6 other wise you would not be worrying about her........... So you see my brother your year may not have been so bad. You are here ..........and ppl care about you |
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:02 PM
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A friend can be a sister,
A friend can be a foe. My friend is like my sister, I will never let her go. A sister may not always be a friend, But a friend should always, no matter what, be a sister. ((((((((((((((((((muffy))))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:22 PM
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awwww that I am ((((((dec)))))))))))))))
remember your sister is always watching LOL your a good man and DAd and husband to Kathy And a very good brother and friend to me ty Jenny the sheep "muffy |
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#7
Dec 31, 2007, 04:24 PM
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I think about the past year too, my bank account going negative 225 ( its back up into the positives) my mom being payee on my disability (no more) leaving my job I love ( then going....back!!) so, I guess, everything that was broken was fixed, in its own way, in its own time...families are confusing therealme, and I do believe here, I read, friends are God's apologies for families...you lost some friends but can you work on the ones you still have, and what do they say?
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:35 PM
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HUGS!!!
Don't worry what the year will bring...that is stressful just looking at it for me...this past year has had major ups and downs and i am not thinking resolutions, not thinking what will be best for everyone in my life, not worrying that i wont be able to help when needed, no worrying who thinks what...i just am going to live day to day. i have started so many things and never finish anything, i lost my kids to their stupid father, who lies and believes it himself, i lost my grandmother, my body has mind of its own on how much i should hurt, but i gained a hubby, love, and here. even?? i dunno. I'm sorry went off on tangent....your sister friend is right, there are 2 points of view, look thru the glass and see the good, look for some small thing daily that makes you smile, hug yourself, and i hope you have a great 365 days of 2008...mel
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:36 PM
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((((((((((((((((((perna))))))))))))))))))
thank you, so very much, take care of yourself dec x0x happy new year
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:37 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:38 PM
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((((((((((((((((junerain))))))))))))))))
thank you for you reply and i think you are a wise person............. lets both hope next year is better dec x0x
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:44 PM
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((((((((((((((((((mrsmoggles))))))))))))))))))))
one day at a time............... then 365 days will turn into 364 day and so on........... you are a wise lady too..... if i close my eyes a little bit i can just see a little good in my year......... dec x0x
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Dec 31, 2007, 04:44 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((everyone)))))))))))))))))))))
HAPPY NEW YEAR dec x0x
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Dec 31, 2007, 05:13 PM
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((((((((((((((Dec))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 05:48 PM
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Best of all my friend . . .
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Dec 31, 2007, 05:59 PM
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Sorry, you had quite a year. My year seems to be bad also,
My sister's soon to be ex-husband hit her. So he went to jail. I had been going to all my sister appt's to make sure she wouldn't lose the kids. No such luck, she almost hit my niece , that I had to push her. I refused to help her and it was all downhill from there. She was arrested 2 times, she just got out Dec 21.I feel so sad because I really love my sister, but I can't afford to get worse myself.Now, my Mom is acting irractic and depressed . She calls me at 4:30 am. to talk. I can hardly take it. My Dad bad mouthed my mom, saying she walked away from her responsibilities,OOOps he must of forgotten he left my mom with 5 kids, no car, could not speak the language.It took a lot for me not to go over there and tell him off. I decided to work out instead. My health sucks, I have been scheduled for 2 tests. Other than that everything is great. I did meet a man at the gas station , and I asked what he was looking for in the garbage cans and he said, Empty pop cans. He was not having any luck, so I said here is a few bucks and God Bless you. I drove off, crying, realizing again that I am so blessed,it could be alot worse. Thank you for letting me share my feelings.   
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Dec 31, 2007, 07:55 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((jacq)))))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 07:56 PM
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((((((((((((((((((keb))))))))))))))))))))
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Dec 31, 2007, 07:58 PM
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(((((((((((((((((sassy)))))))))))))))))
lets just hope 2008 is a better year........ you sound like i fighter.......... keep fighting dec x0x
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Dec 31, 2007, 08:56 PM
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((((hugs))).... it is hard to find words....
to see you keep going... and going...in the face of such hardship inspires all of my alters to try harder.... (((hugs))) I will pray for a better year for you.... |
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Jan 01, 2008, 06:53 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((freewill))))))))))))))))))
auntie freewill
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