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Confessions of little turtle with love #5
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Old Oct 08, 2020, 02:54 PM
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You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.

From Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.
Lovely quote

Hugs and respect to you and your cub, snake and goat dear Thirty shades
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Old Oct 08, 2020, 04:23 PM
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Lovely quote

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Hugs and respect to you and your cub, snake and goat dearest Fuzzybear
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Old Oct 09, 2020, 05:44 AM
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something happened in my country this week.....
i ended up this morning crying and screaming...
i feel some relief now...
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Old Oct 09, 2020, 09:39 PM
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I'm up too late grrrr. Cutting down on benzos grrrrrr

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Old Oct 10, 2020, 07:52 AM
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I'm up too late grrrr. Cutting down on benzos grrrrrr

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fuzzy why are you cutting back on benzos
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Old Oct 11, 2020, 02:37 PM
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fuzzy why are you cutting back on benzos
A few reasons, I'm not sure how much they are helping any more. I have not told the GP surgery (They did try to stop them once before... replacing them with seroquel.. I became allergic to the seroquel) I'm taking 5mg at night at the moment. I've been sleeping ok and my mood has actually been better (not sure why..) I was taking 3 times that amount. But sometimes I took less (for anyone who doesn't know, I've been allergic to all the other meds I've tried (psych meds) except for benzos)

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Old Oct 11, 2020, 04:49 PM
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thanks fuzzy...i still keep a supply...
on the bus
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Old Oct 12, 2020, 03:51 PM
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A blog post ''Invisible, powerful childhood emotional neglect''

Has anyone on the bus read this? Any thoughts?

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Old Oct 12, 2020, 03:55 PM
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''a therapist had to do everything possible to create an atmosphere of ''trust, respect and flexibility''..

Indeed..



Peter Lomas - psychotherapist who broke free of dogma and convention.

''Peter Lomas... was one of the most independent minded and quietly influential psychotherapists in Britain. Through his writing and teaching and his involvement in training, he established a space for critical and free thinking and a practice rooted in the values of ordinary humanity, intuition and humility. In the words of psychologist David Ingleby , he offered ''not answers but questions; not dogmas but doubts''..

Has anyone on the bus read any of his books?

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Old Oct 12, 2020, 04:08 PM
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''Lomas' last book .. returned to the theme of the ethical. It's central argument was that psychotherapy lies in the realm of the moral rather than the scientific and that psychotherapists stand or fall by what Aristotle called ''practical wisdom'' rather than any technique..''
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Old Oct 12, 2020, 05:11 PM
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Invisible, Powerful Childhood Emotional Neglect
By Jonice Webb, PhD
I've seen the article. It's an introduction to the subject.

Targeted search for "childhood emotional neglect" on PsychCentral
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Old Oct 12, 2020, 05:21 PM
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Invisible, Powerful Childhood Emotional Neglect
By Jonice Webb, PhD
I've seen the article. It's an introduction to the subject.

Targeted search for "childhood emotional neglect" on PsychCentral
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Old Oct 12, 2020, 08:52 PM
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I have spent too long online tonight Papa bear has been in bed for hours, it's late here.

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Old Oct 12, 2020, 10:37 PM
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This has been a SHYT day

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Old Oct 13, 2020, 07:51 AM
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((((((( )))))))
May deep sleep and rest revive you.
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Old Oct 13, 2020, 12:28 PM
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May deep sleep and rest revive you.
Thank you Rohag. Today was ''ok''... until I (once again) overwhelmed Papa bear. As we all know, everything in life is ''always the fault of fuzzy bear.''
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Old Oct 13, 2020, 12:29 PM
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anxiety is worse... I have to ''cope'' with this, alone. Papa bear has been sick. It would seem that is the effect I have on people. My family were so ''sick'' of me that they abandoned me, as I ''deserved.''........
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You are not alone on the bus dear Fuzzybear.

I too sometimes find.... that those who are closest are too tired to hear my truth.

You don't deserve your fate, the price paid is torrid and belongs to those who failed you as a cub.

Thank you for being here, being here for so many with so much understanding, respect and kindness.

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anxiety is worse... I have to ''cope'' with this, alone. Papa bear has been sick. It would seem that is the effect I have on people. My family were so ''sick'' of me that they abandoned me, as I ''deserved.''........
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Old Oct 13, 2020, 12:59 PM
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You are not alone on the bus dear Fuzzybear.

I too sometimes find.... that those who are closest are too tired to hear my truth.

You don't deserve your fate, the price paid is torrid and belongs to those who failed you as a cub.

Thank you for being here, being here for so many with so much understanding, respect and kindness.
Thank you dear Thirty shades

Thank you for being here with understanding, respect and kindness
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Old Oct 13, 2020, 02:04 PM
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Attention getting titles. Thinly veiled digs. Not anything here. It's like a train wreck, hard not to look I will be ''strong'' and not go anywhere that is TOXIC to me.

For once I am putting MY NEEDS first, something the whole ''family'' of origin NEVER did... they were and are very ''gifted'' in black and white thinking...and BLAMING ME and not even accurate.
(not about anyone on pc)

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Old Oct 14, 2020, 07:44 AM
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i love going to the cemetery to eat my packed lunch...
by myself to think about life...as is
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Old Oct 14, 2020, 06:11 PM
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Old Oct 15, 2020, 12:11 PM
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i am trying to stay away from all doctor pills...
too many side effects...
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Old Oct 15, 2020, 04:30 PM
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i am trying to stay away from all doctor pills...
too many side effects...
I had a fang taken out about a month ago

I grieve the loss of my fang

My fangs are important to me
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