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Old Dec 05, 2020, 03:55 AM
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I'm up early. I'm dreading my chores today. I may see if I can skip them today. Yesterday, I mainly played my game. Today I hope I can just do the following:

1. Cook a nice meal.
2. Read in bed.
3. Play my game.

Best wishes to everyone! Have a happy and safe weekend!!
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Old Dec 06, 2020, 03:13 PM
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Today is hard. I don't feel well. Yesterday, I did some cooking and reading. I also played my game. This morning I took the trash out and I started loading my dishwasher. But now I'm too tired to continue. I think for the remainder of the day I will do the following:

1. Read in bed.
2. Try to wash the dishes.
3. Go to bed early.

I hope all of you are well! Best wishes to all!!
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Old Dec 06, 2020, 03:50 PM
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I’m actually being productive today and I’m slowly getting things done. My sister and her family will be here shortly to visit then I’ll continue on. I’ll plan for tomorrow after I see what I accomplish today.

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Old Dec 08, 2020, 12:56 AM
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I was able to wash the dishes Sunday. And I've been doing a lot of reading. I stayed up late Sunday. Yesterday, I focused on a few tasks. It was very stressful for me. I'm still stressed today. I have the following to take care of:

1. Take my cat to the vet.
2. Clean the litter boxes.
3. Refill the cat feeder.

Hope all of you are well! Happy Tuesday!!

Question: Why does everything take so much energy? Why can't anything be simple and easy to do?
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Old Dec 08, 2020, 04:55 AM
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I was able to wash the dishes Sunday. And I've been doing a lot of reading. I stayed up late Sunday. Yesterday, I focused on a few tasks. It was very stressful for me. I'm still stressed today. I have the following to take care of:

1. Take my cat to the vet.
2. Clean the litter boxes.
3. Refill the cat feeder.

Hope all of you are well! Happy Tuesday!!

Question: Why does everything take so much energy? Why can't anything be simple and easy to do?
I'm struggling to clean the litter box and refill the cat feeder. If I can get those two things out of the way, the remainder of the day should go well. I was reading that putting on some motivational music helps. Maybe I should try that. I've tried to get more sleep, but I woke up an hour later. I'm being really hard on myself. And I'm sure that is making it worse.
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Old Dec 09, 2020, 12:25 AM
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I was able to take my cat to the vet yesterday. She's all patched up. And I cleaned the litter boxes. I'm so glad I accomplished those things. I didn't worry about the cat feeder. I have some special food coming for my cat. I'll wait until I get that. Today I have an appointment, but I think I will cancel. I plan to do the following:

1. Cook and clean.
2. Read in bed.
3. Try some art.

Wishing everyone the best!!
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Old Dec 10, 2020, 07:43 AM
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My mom has hurt her leg so that’s added an additional level of care to my already caring for her and my brother. My days have been topsy turvy. Hopefully it will calm down soon. Today I’d like to:

1. Clean the den.
2. Prepare for talks with my daughter and brother.
3. Bring the trash in and take the recycling out.
4. Work on inner peace course.
5. Cook dinner.

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Old Dec 10, 2020, 09:54 AM
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Yesterday, I was struggling with going to a doctor's appointment. I finally decided to go. That was my main focus. That and relaxing. Today, I hope to:

1. Open packages.
2. Cook
3. Read in bed.

Hope all of you are well! Happy Thursday!!
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Old Dec 10, 2020, 07:14 PM
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My mom has hurt her leg so that’s added an additional level of care to my already caring for her and my brother. My days have been topsy turvy. Hopefully it will calm down soon. Today I’d like to:

1. Clean the den.
2. Prepare for talks with my daughter and brother.
3. Bring the trash in and take the recycling out.
4. Work on inner peace course.
5. Cook dinner.

I hope everyone is well!
I had a very off day. I completed #2, 3 and 4. Tomorrow will be better.

Tomorrow I plan to:

1. Clean the den
2. Talk to my brother while taking him to the doctor
3. Talk to my daughter
4. Inner Peace course
5. Run errands

Hope everyone is well!
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Old Dec 10, 2020, 09:35 PM
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Yesterday, I was struggling with going to a doctor's appointment. I finally decided to go. That was my main focus. That and relaxing. Today, I hope to:

1. Open packages.
2. Cook
3. Read in bed.

Hope all of you are well! Happy Thursday!!
I had a busy day taking care of various things. I was able to open 1 box and refill the cat feeders. That was my only physical task completed. I didn't have time to cook or read. And I had difficulty relaxing. Tomorrow, I want to rest and take care of the following:

1. Organize the packages.
2. Clean the litter box.
3. Empty the trash.

I plan to be as lazy as possible. Hope everyone has a good Friday!
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Old Dec 12, 2020, 10:17 AM
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Today I want to
1. Do laundry
2. Write Christmas cards
3. Do some shopping for family and a donation to a good cause
4. Go to bed at reasonable time (yesterday was very tired and too tired to eat dinner earlier in the evening so rested and napped some then ate dinner at 11:30 pm!)
5. Nap
6. Make vegetarian vindaloo for dinner with fresh cauliflower and sweet potatoes (it’s very tasty and made it in the past, seasoning includes curry and a little cayenne seasoning for some kick).

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Old Dec 12, 2020, 11:15 AM
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I'm struggling today. I didn't sleep well and I ended up with a migraine. I was able to clean the litter box and empty the trash. I need to take the trash out today, but I'm too tired. I feel completely overwhelmed. I just want to go back to bed. But today, I will try to do the following:

1. Open some packages.
2. Clean the kitchen.
3. Take a shower.

Hope all of you are well! Happy weekend!!
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Old Dec 12, 2020, 09:55 PM
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Today, I opened 1 package, cooked 3 meals and cleaned up a little in the kitchen. I thought about taking a shower but didn't get to it. I feel tired. I'm trying to sleep but I'm struggling. Tomorrow, I will take care of the following:

1. Take out the trash.
2. Move my packages to the coffee table.
3. Open 1 package.

Hope all of you have a good evening!
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Old Dec 12, 2020, 09:55 PM
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Today I want to
1. Do laundry
2. Write Christmas cards
3. Do some shopping for family and a donation to a good cause
4. Go to bed at reasonable time (yesterday was very tired and too tired to eat dinner earlier in the evening so rested and napped some then ate dinner at 11:30 pm!)
5. Nap
6. Make vegetarian vindaloo for dinner with fresh cauliflower and sweet potatoes (it’s very tasty and made it in the past, seasoning includes curry and a little cayenne seasoning for some kick).

Have a good weekend everyone.
Today I did wash a few loads of laundry, napped and made vegetarian vindaloo for dinner. Didn’t write Christmas cards or shop online for others.
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Old Dec 12, 2020, 10:36 PM
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Old Dec 12, 2020, 11:32 PM
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@Fuzzybear, hugs and much love to you! I hope you feel better soon.
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Old Dec 13, 2020, 07:40 AM
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Old Dec 13, 2020, 07:45 AM
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I’m getting things ready for my daughter’s arrival tomorrow. I’m in a really good mood, energetic and motivated so hopefully things will go well.

Today:

1. Clean house
2. Pick up groceries
3. Clean car
4. Zoom meeting on Goals 2021
5. Walk in the park
6. Read for relaxation

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Old Dec 13, 2020, 05:02 PM
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Today, I opened 1 package, cooked 3 meals and cleaned up a little in the kitchen. I thought about taking a shower but didn't get to it. I feel tired. I'm trying to sleep but I'm struggling. Tomorrow, I will take care of the following:

1. Take out the trash.
2. Move my packages to the coffee table.
3. Open 1 package.

Hope all of you have a good evening!
I moved all my packages to the coffee table. So now it will be easy to open them. I opened a few boxes today. I held off on my trash. I'm going to have some people come and haul it all away along with a junk pile. I also cleaned the litter boxes and washed dishes. Tomorrow, I plan to do the following:

1. Open some boxes.
2. Open some packages.
3. Go to my appointment.

Hope all of you have a good Monday!
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Old Dec 14, 2020, 04:47 PM
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I moved all my packages to the coffee table. So now it will be easy to open them. I opened a few boxes today. I held off on my trash. I'm going to have some people come and haul it all away along with a junk pile. I also cleaned the litter boxes and washed dishes. Tomorrow, I plan to do the following:

1. Open some boxes.
2. Open some packages.
3. Go to my appointment.

Hope all of you have a good Monday!
I made it to my appointment today. This morning I opened a couple of boxes. I didn't open any packages. I just didn't have time. I took the trash out too. It's been a busy day. I will go to bed soon. Tomorrow, I have the following:

1. Have a company remove a junk pile.
2. Unload the dishwasher.
3. Do some cooking.

I hope all of you are well! Best of luck with your tasks!!
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Old Dec 17, 2020, 05:46 PM
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I have been really busy all week. I sort of took the day off today. But I did apply for assistance with a couple of programs. Tomorrow, I have the following:

1. Go to a medical appointment.
2. Take out the trash.
3. Load the dishwasher.

Hope everyone is well! It's almost the weekend!! Yay!
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Is anyone willing to be "one on one" accountability partners with me? Let me explain what I mean, I mean that we check in a couple of times every day in private messages (via email or a messaging program or whatever is preferred). It would be a set time for me in the mornings, CET timezone. But I could adjust that a bit if you are American if that works better that way. But if you are in Europe it would be easier. But again, I don't mind adjusting to the timezone. But it is very important to me that it's done at set times. E.g. 9 AM, then 10 AM, then maybe a couple of times in the afternoon too but the first two are very important (but I can adjust with timezone, these were example times)
EDIT: It can just be 5 days a week, not literally every day.

Please PM me if you are willing to work with me on this. Thanks so much.

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Old Dec 18, 2020, 06:19 PM
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I washed dishes today and I made it to my medical appointment. It was awful. I feel terrible right now. I didn't take the trash out. I will try to do that tomorrow.
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Old Dec 19, 2020, 04:02 PM
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Today I took out the trash. And I cleaned the litter box. So I feel like I've had a productive day. I feel much better now. I've been taking Tylenol and Advil. It's helping with the pain. Tomorrow, I don't want to do housework. But I will need to wash the dishes.

I hope all of you are well! Happy weekend!!
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Old Dec 19, 2020, 06:48 PM
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Today I took out the trash. And I cleaned the litter box. So I feel like I've had a productive day. I feel much better now. I've been taking Tylenol and Advil. It's helping with the pain. Tomorrow, I don't want to do housework. But I will need to wash the dishes.

I hope all of you are well! Happy weekend!!


That's great if you feel you had an actually productive day Those days help me too. I didn't have a very productive one today lol it gotta be tomorrow though.
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