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Old Dec 20, 2020, 03:41 PM
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Is anyone willing to be "one on one" accountability partners with me? Let me explain what I mean, I mean that we check in a couple of times every day in private messages (via email or a messaging program or whatever is preferred). It would be a set time for me in the mornings, CET timezone. But I could adjust that a bit if you are American if that works better that way. But if you are in Europe it would be easier. But again, I don't mind adjusting to the timezone. But it is very important to me that it's done at set times. E.g. 9 AM, then 10 AM, then maybe a couple of times in the afternoon too but the first two are very important (but I can adjust with timezone, these were example times)
EDIT: It can just be 5 days a week, not literally every day.

Please PM me if you are willing to work with me on this. Thanks so much.
I’m willing. But, if you already have someone, I don’t want to bother.
Don’t feel very comfortable sharing the things I do on the public board, I prefer on private. And of course, giving support and place for interaction and boost would be there.
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Old Dec 20, 2020, 05:01 PM
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Today I washed the dishes. I also checked the mail. Tomorrow, I plan to:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Go through the mail.
3. Prepare a meal.

I feel overwhelmed already. The only thing I really have to do tomorrow is clean the litter box. I think I forgot my night time meds yesterday, so I'm not feeling all that great. I spent a lot of time sleeping today.

I hope all of you are well and have a happy Monday!
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Old Dec 20, 2020, 05:30 PM
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Today I cleaned the kitchen and the bathrooms. I’ve lost my motivation to continue so I’ll go to bed early and start fresh and early tomorrow. I have much to do to get ready for Christmas. My daughter will be visiting tomorrow so I’ll try to get done before she arrives.

Tomorrow:

1. Clean dining room
2. Clean living room
3. Sweep/mop/vacuum floors
4. Run errands

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Old Dec 21, 2020, 07:00 AM
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I don't feel well this day. My motivation is gone and I am self-blaming. I found DBSA's "Wellness wheel" at Internet today. That helped me to remember that I am not alone. So here I am writing again.

I will write a grocery list and send it for delivery (today)
........... shower.
........... make dinner and eat it.
.......... fill the washing machine.
......... vacuum clean if I have the energy.

Tomorrow I have an appointment with my GP. I have not made any plans for the 23th. On the evening before Christmas day my family will come and bring me to the place we will be together for celebration this year. I look forward to that (may be that's why I have so little motivation today? I have a tendency to feel terrible before something good is going to happen, as if I don't think I deserve it).

I am posting a link to "Wellness wheel" in case somebody find it useful:
DBSA Wellness Wheel - Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance

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Old Dec 21, 2020, 10:44 AM
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Today I cooked a casserole, emptied the trash and cleaned the litter box. That is pretty much all I will do today. I feel fairly good about doing that much. Tomorrow, I plan to:

1. Take out the trash.
2. Clean the other litter boxes.
3. Prepare a meal.

I hope all of you are doing well this Monday!
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Old Dec 21, 2020, 07:17 PM
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I’m willing. But, if you already have someone, I don’t want to bother.
Don’t feel very comfortable sharing the things I do on the public board, I prefer on private. And of course, giving support and place for interaction and boost would be there.

Thank you! I would be interested, do PM me and we can go from there.

(Someone else did offer too but I was thinking of adding one more time for check-in so your help would be great And I'm glad to also help you with all this too.)
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Old Dec 22, 2020, 05:11 AM
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Yesterday, I cleaned the other litter boxes and this morning, I made a pasta dish. Later today, I will take my trash out. One thing I want to accomplish today is taking a shower. I will try this morning. So today, I want to do the following:

1. Take a shower.
2. Take out the trash.
3. Prepare another meal.

I hope all of you are well! It's almost Christmas. Happy holidays!
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Old Dec 22, 2020, 05:14 AM
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@GoGo2, I hope you're feeling better today. Good luck with your GP appointment. And happy holidays to you. I hope you have a wonderful celebration!
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Old Dec 22, 2020, 06:45 AM
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I will write a grocery list and send it for delivery (today)
........... shower.
........... make dinner and eat it.
.......... fill the washing machine.
......... vacuum clean if I have the energy.
I did everything except the vacuum cleaning.
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Old Dec 22, 2020, 06:55 AM
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@GoGo2, I hope you're feeling better today. Good luck with your GP appointment. And happy holidays to you. I hope you have a wonderful celebration!
I am home from the GP visit. Everything is OK!

Thank you for thinking on me! I do feel better. I wish you a Happy Holiday as well!

I will not leave before Thursday.

Today I will vacuum clean and make an easy to make, but healthy, dinner.

Be well!
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Old Dec 22, 2020, 12:49 PM
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I was able to take a shower today. I also took out the trash. And I ordered groceries. It's been a busy morning. I had to send documentation to different places for an application I'm filling out. I am ready to rest. I don't know what I will do tomorrow. I know it's time for my dishes and the kitchen is a wreck. So, I guess I'll do this tomorrow:

1. Wash dishes.
2. Clean off the counters.
3. Put the rest of the groceries away.

Wishing everyone the best!
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Old Dec 23, 2020, 04:08 PM
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Today I haven't done much. I did clean off my kitchen counters but I didn't wash dishes. The groceries are still on the floor. The dry goods, that is. I did work on my food stamp application. I uploaded all the documents I think they want. I'm not sure if I have to locate my birth certificate and upload that. I am tired. I don't want to do anything else today. Tomorrow, I'm not enthusiastic about either. But I guess if I want a good Christmas, I'll get my chores out of the way:

1. Wash dishes.
2. Take out the trash.
3. Go through the mail.

Wishing all of the best. Have a good evening!!
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Old Dec 23, 2020, 04:40 PM
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My daughter and I worked on the house for Christmas and put up the tree and decorations. Better late than never. She was a big help. Tomorrow I want to:

1. Pre-make casserole contents
2. Finish the house
3. Have fun

Warm regards to everyone.
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Old Dec 24, 2020, 06:59 AM
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I washed dishes this morning. I also cleaned the litter box. If it's not icy this morning, I'll take my trash out. I don't plan to do any more housework until Saturday. Tomorrow is Christmas and I want to enjoy myself. I do have a few goals for tomorrow:

1. Prepare a nice feast.
2. Play my games.
3. Watch 360 videos.

Happy holidays to everyone! May you all have a wonderful Christmas!!
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Old Dec 25, 2020, 01:25 PM
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Today I ate Thai food. I decided I didn't want to cook. I fed the cats and took my meds. I also played my game a while. Tomorrow, I will:

1. Take out the trash.
2. Clean the litter box.
3. Put the groceries away.

Merry Christmas to everyone!
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Old Dec 27, 2020, 10:08 AM
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I've done no chores for 2 days. Today, I hope to clean the litter box. I'm trying to get motivated:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Take care of my trash.
3. Cook a meal.

Hope everyone is doing well! Happy Sunday!!
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Old Dec 27, 2020, 12:40 PM
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I was able to clean the litter box and cook a healthy meal. As far as my trash goes, I'm going to get help with it. It's almost noon and I am done for the day. I'm going to relax now. Tomorrow, I will do the following:

1. Unload the dishwasher.
2. Clean the kitchen table.
3. Cook another meal.

Wishing everyone the best!
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Old Dec 28, 2020, 07:38 PM
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I started on the dishwasher today. I will probably finish it in the morning. I also worked a little on my kitchen table. I did not have time to cook. I did laundry this morning. Tomorrow, I hope to do the following:

1. Unload the dishwasher.
2. Clean off the kitchen counters.
3. Sweep the kitchen floor.

I hope all of you are well!
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Old Dec 29, 2020, 10:21 AM
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I'm a bit tired this morning. So it's hard to get motivated to finish my tasks. But I did wash the dishes last night and I cleaned off the counters. I think today I will try the following:

1. Cook a meal.
2. Take a shower.
3. Put groceries away.

Warm wishes to all!
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Old Dec 29, 2020, 05:47 PM
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Today has been difficult. I did cook a meal though. And I put some groceries away. I haven't taken a shower. I'm finding that hard to do. Tomorrow, I will try:

1. Take a shower.
2. Put groceries away.
3. Open packages.

I hope all of you are well. Good luck with your tasks and chores.
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Old Dec 30, 2020, 11:40 AM
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I have been working on packages and groceries today. I washed up last night. It's not a shower but it gets the job done. I've just been really tired. I'll do a little more work today but mainly I will relax. This is what I have planned for tomorrow:

1. Take the trash out.
2. Sweep the floor.
3. Do some art.

Wishing all of you the best, and a happy New Year's Eve!
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Old Dec 31, 2020, 08:01 PM
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I was too ambitious yesterday. I did none of my tasks today. I did clean the litter box, empty the trash and clean off the counters. That was all I could handle. Today has been a really bad day. I spent several hours in bed depressed. I don't care about tomorrow. I don't have anything planned.
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Old Jan 01, 2021, 06:31 PM
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Today I took my shower, took out the trash, did some cooking and ordered Thai food. I've had a good day. A much better day. Tomorrow, I have the following planned:

1. Clean the litter box.
2. Sweep the floor.
3. Put the groceries away.

Hope all of you are well! Happy New Year!!
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 01:02 PM
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I'm not doing well at planning. Today the most important thing is to wash dishes. I am working on that now. It's noon and I am tired already. I may go to bed early. Today, I have one goal. And that is to wash dishes. Tomorrow, I will have to clean the litter box. That might be the only thing I do. The rest of the time, I'm working on my Etsy store.
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 01:13 PM
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I’m attending a seminar today (virtually) that will take much of the day. After that, I’m going to work on the house and my car. Today:

1. Seminar
2. Pick up house
3. Clean car
4. Work on new hobby

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