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May 27, 2008, 11:36 AM
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Some days i feel like i really need to wear the "Kick Me" sing on my forehead... i start to think, and on those days it usually turns out i was wrong to begin with and after a lot of turmoil and arguing and stress and unhappiness, i yield to the lesson...
so today, i will do my best not to argue... i want to skip all thet turmoil and stress and unhappiness and just say... i yield, whats the lesson? this is not directed at anyone, just me thinking outloud, about events of the past, how i might better deal for myswelf in the future... no replies are necessary, (but i do appreciate any lesson you have for me) thank you for listening tho.... |
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May 27, 2008, 11:49 AM
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Nowheretorun,
I can identify. My husband has been fixated on getting a rototiller. It was my idea to have a vegetable garden this year, especially b/c of the soaring price of everything. It took us awhile to figure out the correct piece of equipment, and then we got sticker shock, when we realized the average price of a rototiller costs around $1200. Anyway if I had just paid our bills on Saturday instead of waiting to today, when my husband brought it up yesterday, I could just have said, there's not enough money in our checking account.  I'm trying to implement a "Be extra nice to me" rule until I get through my foot surgery on Friday, and recovery. EJ 
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#3
May 27, 2008, 11:54 AM
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aw EJ, ive been going 10,000 directions and i havent prayed for you yet for the foot surgery... (((Foot Surgery)))))) i pray for success for your operation ..
is it possible to rent a rototiller in your area EJ? i'd prefer to own also, but my circumstances wouldnt allow that... a garden is really such an excellent idea  the lesson? wait til things turn out better? 
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#4
May 27, 2008, 12:34 PM
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May 27, 2008, 02:15 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((( nowheretorun ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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May 27, 2008, 02:17 PM
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Husband came home with the name of someone who rototills. This was one of my original ideas.
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May 27, 2008, 03:43 PM
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Sometimes it is not the result of learning but the process of learning that is the lesson.
No problem can be solved in only one way. Some problems can have no solution. Realization of that point is the lesson to be learned. Not bad for a frog of little brain
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May 27, 2008, 03:48 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
kebsfroggy said: Sometimes it is not the result of learning but the process of learning that is the lesson. No problem can be solved in only one way. Some problems can have no solution. Realization of that point is the lesson to be learned. Not bad for a frog of little brain </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> 
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May 27, 2008, 04:12 PM
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Re: kebsfroggy
we haven't met before, so let me introduce myself, I'm john4 . Nice to meet you. |
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#10
May 27, 2008, 06:34 PM
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((((nowheretorun )))))))))))
Somedays its not you doing the agruing, but the person on the other end that may need the lesson. Somedays it can be misunderstandings, which lead to stress and unhappiness. Those you forgive and learn as I do..... Somedays listening and caring is all you can do...... which you do very well........ Sometimes that "kick me sign" could have been the other persons fault. they may have been wearing the same sign and had been kicked so low...things just came out wrong........ as ((keb))) said "Sometimes it is not the result of learning but the process of learning that is the lesson." Sometimes its just a lesson to learn to forgive the other person.... I know you are a good person...... With that comes understanding of ppl I myself in the last few days have been under a ton of stress No matter what I say it seems to come out wrong...... That i feel bad about....... It sounds like i am agruing but in my head I think its a cry for help. I think I got long winded here sorry muffy one more thought, disagreements happen, its part of life you grow on it , learn from it. learn to love more from it... (((you matter))))))))) |
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May 27, 2008, 06:42 PM
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((((((((((nwtr)))))))))))))
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May 27, 2008, 06:48 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
muffy said: ((((nowheretorun ))))))))))) Somedays its not you doing the agruing, but the person on the other end that may need the lesson. Somedays it can be misunderstandings, which lead to stress and unhappiness. Those you forgive and learn as I do..... Somedays listening and caring is all you can do...... which you do very well........ Sometimes that "kick me sign" could have been the other persons fault. they may have been wearing the same sign and had been kicked so low...things just came out wrong........ as ((keb))) said "Sometimes it is not the result of learning but the process of learning that is the lesson." Sometimes its just a lesson to learn to forgive the other person.... I know you are a good person...... With that comes understanding of ppl I myself in the last few days have been under a ton of stress No matter what I say it seems to come out wrong...... That i feel bad about....... It sounds like i am agruing but in my head I think its a cry for help. I think I got long winded here sorry muffy one more thought, disagreements happen, its part of life you grow on it , learn from it. learn to love more from it... (((you matter))))))))) </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> (((((((((((((((( muffy ))))))))))))))))
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May 27, 2008, 10:38 PM
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With every lesson we learn and when we learn we grow.
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May 27, 2008, 10:48 PM
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thanks you all, you each came up with some really good stuff... i like it... sometimes the lesson is about how to learn....... i am a pretty slow learner i spose lol .... ive had two serious psychological episodes in my life.... psychiatry has always been on my shoulder but, i was like some bumbling idiot trying to find professional therapy... i got some alright and the words they spoke all made sense to me.... i had such difficulty applying them... slow learner..... i hope im on the right path now.... you all matter so much to me..... (((((ALL OF PC))))))))))
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May 29, 2008, 01:09 AM
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((((((((((((nowheretorun)))))))))))
I can take the sign from you for a little while if you'd like and stick it on my forehead with mine? or we could take it and put it on a pillow and take our frustration out on it? Or we could sit down and have a nice class of tea/coffee and try and relax? Try and be gentle with yourself... you're a good man.
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#16
May 29, 2008, 10:35 PM
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(((((Jacq10))))))))) you are a dear, kind, person ... sending my cares to you..
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May 30, 2008, 03:47 PM
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hi NTR,
such a great Guy, you are Dear Person! be glad we aren't perfect, oh my, that would leave us nothing to look forward or aspire to ... it would be bbrrrrr - just perish the thought. we'll keep you. there is nobody better! peace and love, night I hope you feel as good as you are! 
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May 31, 2008, 06:42 AM
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Always always listening (((NWTR)))
Dee
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#19
May 31, 2008, 12:33 PM
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((nightbird))) and ((Best))))
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